bleep is offline bleep Post #1  August 13,2009, 5:36pm
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Help I have recieved 20 messages from a man and have written 20 messages back and still no mention of getting together. Is this one of thoes " he is just not that into you" times. Where I should cut and run maybe find someone else who might be interested? Or should I take the first step and suggest that we meet? Help Please. Bleep
 
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #2  August 13,2009, 6:00pm
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Yes, definitely invite him or suggest setting up a meeting.

He may just be innexperienced with online dating, or afraid to "come on too strong."
 
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flgal is offline flgal Post #3  August 13,2009, 6:11pm
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I would definitely throw a hint out there. Good luck!
 
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DDjr is offline DDjr Post #4  August 13,2009, 6:27pm
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I assume these are not twenty five letter texts!?!

Why is no one talking about talking on the phone? (That's the step next to setting up a meeting.)
 
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thanks for everyones help
 
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TWENTY?

I'd just stop.
 
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If he doesn't go to phone or ask you out I would stop very soon. Thats a lot of communication and no mention of getting togeather...
 
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Ms666 is offline Ms666 Post #8  August 14,2009, 7:40am
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He just may have met someone else and is dating them. He could be keeping up communication with you in case the other one doesn't pan out. Umm not saying that I've done that...
 
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I usually like the guy to make the first move but if I had been back and forth 4-5 times and he didn't offer getting together, I would ask myself. But that is just me.
 
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DDjr wrote :
I assume these are not twenty five letter texts!?!

Why is no one talking about talking on the phone? (That's the step next to setting up a meeting.)
I have almost never talked on the phone with any of my matches before the first meeting.
 
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