shygurl is offline shygurl Post #1  August 10,2009, 10:32pm
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i need help mu name is sabreena and i am reall shy i like guy who is the same age as me and he was hekka flirting with me after him and his gf brok up then he got back together the week after that but that whole week it was flirt after flirt after flirt and they they brok up again and he was hekka flirting with me again alot and then he went to this party in turlock and met these girls well seince then he been ignoring me then come to find out that him and his gf jus got back together and i really like this guy idk wat to do i to shy to just go up to him and try some thing and he nows how i feel can any body give me advise on what i should do plzzz
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #2  August 11,2009, 10:34am
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I assume that you are rather young. Though this advice would be the same if you were older.

This guy breaks up with his girfriend one week and gets back together the next week and does this over and over.

My advice is to not get involved with this guy. He does not have his life under control. find another guy who has his life under control and has the time and interest to include you in it.
 
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wishamee is offline wishamee Post #3  August 11,2009, 6:01pm
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The guy is not a good person to try to date right now. He is changing his mind too much. Being nice to you sometimes and then being back with his girlfriend again and again, is a bad sign.
 
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Sounds like a player to me. Think about it, he's been on and off with the same girl week after week, he's flirting with you, and he's going to parties and meeting other girls. He can't decide who he wants to pay attention to, and should you pursue a relationship with him, he probably still won't.

I don't know the guy personally or anything, so I may be wrong about this one, but to my experience, guys like this have no interest in loyalties or meaningful relationships. They want to test the waters and see what's out there, but they don't want to give up what they already have. If you like him as much as it sounds like you do, he'll probably only break your heart. I would suggest to leave him and let him figure himself out.
 
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #5  August 12,2009, 1:58am
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My brain hurts just reading the first post...
 
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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #6  August 12,2009, 3:17am
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Having conducted full psyhometric analysis of your post, here is what I have been able to conclude -
There is a hekka of a lot of flirting going on there without any use of common sense or even proper language (or should I say tongue) skills. Natural shyness appears to be the least of your problems, so please do not worry your pretty red head about it at all.

Proposed Measures:
How about reading an English textbook first (to learn the difference between uses of language and tongue (especially when it's firmly planted in cheek)), followed by reading the Dictionary and Thesaurus, at the very least to look up all possible meanings and interpretations of the word 'shy'?

Good Luck!
Please make sure to post back and let us know how you go with that, so that we can advise you further on the next interesting selection of words?
 
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