How do we legally warn women about womanisers on websites?


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Asian_Sophia_Loren is offline Asian_Sophia_Loren Post #1  August 5,2009, 5:52am
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I've had a very... very... bad dating experience 6 months ago - we broke up though - long story !...He was dating many other women which he met in other social networking sites that I didn't know about until I started researching ( he always said that he was dating only me & when I confronted him through sms ,he threathened to call the cops & insulted me a lot ) ...On one site he has 102 friends - most of them looked like prostitutes from the same city that we live in & He acts like a nice gentleman on other sites - he's in almost 10 sites - Each woman from a different place or country ..I've realised that he HATES women & would do anything to use a woman for his selfish benefits & expect the woman to keep 'silent'.
How do I legally warn people about him on these sites or on the net ? Any legal advice? Thanks
 
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There's actually a site for this! Disclaimer: I don't know how legal it is and I'm not recommending this as a course of action. But it's interesting reading :-) It's called dontdatehimgirl.com
I looked at it once or twice out of curiosity awhile back and just checked it out again - looks like you have to join now to browse, which I don't want to do.

I'm sorry you got involved with such a loser :-(
 
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Asian_Sophia_Loren wrote :
I've had a very... very... bad dating experience 6 months ago - we broke up though - long story !...He was dating many other women which he met in other social networking sites that I didn't know about until I started researching ( he always said that he was dating only me & when I confronted him through sms ,he threathened to call the cops & insulted me a lot ) ...On one site he has 102 friends - most of them looked like prostitutes from the same city that we live in & He acts like a nice gentleman on other sites - he's in almost 10 sites - Each woman from a different place or country ..I've realised that he HATES women & would do anything to use a woman for his selfish benefits & expect the woman to keep 'silent'.
How do I legally warn people about him on these sites or on the net ? Any legal advice? Thanks
i think the only thing that women can do is be careful. regardless of how it might seem, you have no idea of who you are talking to and it is much easier to conceal your identity or intention on the internet.

dont drop your guard even if you connect with and think that you know that person well. men that are trying to exploit women dont want to have to invest extensively in them, whether its time or finances. its an important point to remember.

 
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I don't know that anyone here is qualified to give you legal advise (and the ones who are probably wouldn't...just because it's an odd forum to do so).

There are guys like this all over the place. I've run into them too and I'm sorry that you got caught up with one. But the best advice I can offer is: The best revenge is living well. Write him off and move on.
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
But the best advice I can offer is: The best revenge is living well. Write him off and move on.

Absolutely correct.
 
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yep. lol, i'm checking out the site though.
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
I don't know that anyone here is qualified to give you legal advise (and the ones who are probably wouldn't...just because it's an odd forum to do so).

There are guys like this all over the place. I've run into them too and I'm sorry that you got caught up with one. But the best advice I can offer is: The best revenge is living well. Write him off and move on.
Yep. Solid dating choices -- and respecting yourself -- will go a long way to helping avoid these situations. I know that's not always easy to do, but sometimes we do get a little lazy with our principles for the sake of instant gratification. Not saying that's the case with the OP, just a general observation.
 
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There are 'bad' people everywhere you go. Be the bigger person and let it go and move on with your life.
 
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Grow up OP and move on. Recently I discovered a woman who initiated contact with me on another website, was dating and bedding down a lot of men.

We had a few good conversations on the phone but she bored me. Still I thought we could be good friends. Then she started playing some "rules" game on me.

Not returning a call for 3 days etc. And some other rude beahavior. So I dropped her. Why do I want to hang out with a woman who not only plays the rules game but is a playa?

Not all women are the perfect Angels you think they are. And not all men are bad guys.
 
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roguewolf1 wrote :
We had a few good conversations on the phone but she bored me. Still I thought we could be good friends.
Why would you want to be good friends with someone who bores you? Not to mention with a woman, when you don't seem to like women much at all, based on what I've read on the boards from you?
 
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