csmith694 is offline csmith694 Post #1  August 2,2009, 7:12pm
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I have been in a rutt with a partner that dislike most of the things I enjoy. Ho Hum is the word. I need a mate with ideas and energy to try new things in life. I at the age I need to do more things before I wilt away.
 
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And your question is......?
 
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There are usualy ways to push people's buttons in order to motivate them.

You could try to find a way to make the things taht you want to do more exciting for her.

Or she could be a lost cause.
 
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yeoww is offline yeoww Post #4  August 4,2009, 12:45am
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Are you married to this person? Have you talked with her about the way you feel? Or do you just want to vent?

(I was going to say, sounds like a mid-life crisis to me. But I was afraid that would be insensitive...)
 
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Since you are already considering finding someone "new and exciting", why don't you just do it.
End things with your partner, move out and good luck in the dating arena.

Oh, if this is just thinking out loud to justify an affair, why don't your tell your partner that.............

It's sure to bring some "excitement"
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I have been in a rut with a partner that dislike most of the things I enjoy. Ho Hum is the word. I need a mate with ideas and energy to try new things in life. I at the age I need to do more things before I wilt away.
 
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[quote=Wiseman2;698450]
Since you are already considering finding someone "new and exciting", why don't you just do it.
End things with your partner, move out and good luck in the dating arena.

Oh, if this is just thinking out loud to justify an affair, why don't your tell your partner that.............

It's sure to bring some "excitement"




I would post here, but.....
 
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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #7  August 4,2009, 5:27am
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j0hn8andy wrote :
It's sure to bring some "excitement"

I would post here, but.....

National Night Out?
 
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