chandracloud is offline chandracloud Post #1  August 1,2009, 12:49pm
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I was matched with mr. perfect. I mean bod, brains, similar career, like wow. He views me regularly and responded up until the open communication part. How long till you think maybe this is a no go? Would you nudge, request fast track (it's his preference), or even secure call? I don't want to seem too aggressive.
 
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If you are through to open communication, you are in fast track. There is no need to do much else, maybe a nudge.

Anyway, the more interested you are in someone, the more time you will give them to respond, but I would not advise waiting over two weeks - and that is only if you are very interested. Know that the longer you wait for a response, the less chance there is of something good happening.

Of course, if you do close him, he could always ask to be reopened.
 
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I don’t think you should worry about seeming aggressive. Women get frightened by aggression; men get bemused.
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I'm fascinated that you've tagged him as "Mr. Perfect" when you have met or spoken...? That aside, give him a few more days or maybe a nudge. If you still get "crickets", I would close the communication.

Good luck!
 
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It can't hurt trying what you stated below, worst that happens is no response, which is where you are now. Best is he is shy or was busy and sees you are very interested and responds , you've got nothing to loose.
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I was matched with Mr. perfect. I mean bod, brains, similar career, like wow. He views me regularly and responded up until the open communication part. How long till you think maybe this is a no go? Would you nudge, request fast track (it's his preference), or even secure call? I don't want to seem too aggressive.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
I don’t think you should worry about seeming aggressive. Women get frightened by aggression; men get bemused.

Thank you, Froggie!
I've finally discovered my purpose in life (with your invaluable objective factual help, of course) - to bemuse male amphibians, and maybe even some beer-drinking reptiles !
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #7  August 2,2009, 11:07am
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how long till you think uh oh?



I don't worry about it to be honest.

 
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