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What do *you* find romantic?

When you are trying to BE romantic, what types of things do you do?
 
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eH_Advice_Admin_Lori wrote :
What do *you* find romantic?

When you are trying to BE romantic, what types of things do you do?
The things which I find romantic are things which make me feel special and cared for. Examples:
~ He spends time stroking or brushing my hair. I find this very relaxing.
~ Getting a back rub with extra attention paid to neck and shoulders.
~ Being hugged no reason other than he wants to hug/hold me.
~ Holding my hand. Even if we're watching telly.

I like to:
~ Cook something he likes for no reason.
~ Give him a neck, shoulder, back massage.
~ Make sure that when we are out or I'm visiting him at his house, I look the best I possibly can that day.
~ Wear perfume he either likes or gave to me.
 
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Whatever makes us both feel good and happy at that particular moment in time!

Could be anything or nothing at all, as long as the feeling is right and happy, I feel incredibly romantic...
 
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eH_Advice_Admin_Lori wrote :
What do *you* find romantic?

When you are trying to BE romantic, what types of things do you do?
Nothing contrived because that feels unbearably false, i generally act romantically towards a person because i feel romantic about them, if i don't then we should probably stop dating.

What i personally find the most romantic is contact (no, not carnal, well, not always) I'm a tactile person and if i'm in a romantic relationship then i want to be able to walk down the street holding hands, stop for a hug and kiss her for no better reason than "Because"
 
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gothustartus wrote :
Nothing contrived because that feels unbearably false, i generally act romantically towards a person because i feel romantic about them, if i don't then we should probably stop dating.

What i personally find the most romantic is contact (no, not carnal, well, not always) I'm a tactile person and if i'm in a romantic relationship then i want to be able to walk down the street holding hands, stop for a hug and kiss her for no better reason than "Because"
But isn't that the BEST reason, ever!
 
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IcecreamMoon wrote :
But isn't that the BEST reason, ever!
Of course.
 
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gothustartus wrote :
Of course.

If I didn't know better, I'd call you a "playah", of course!
 
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If I didn't know better, I'd call you a "playah", of course!
Of course is the only possible answer to because.
 
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Of course is the only possible answer to because.

Because you should drink and subject yourself to sleep deprivation more often, of course.
 
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