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They met in the net and usually chat everyday after dinner. He's had a weeklong operation and came back. She sent him lots of offline messages and only got one reply. Viewed his profile and read some comments about exchanging number with another lady. So what do you think? Go or NO go?
 
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Hard to say. Have they ever met? If they have what did she think? Emails and phone calls are important but untill I have met someone I am missing a huge amount of information. Has he ever asked to meet?
 
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A weeklong operation? Does not sound like he is in any shape to date at the moment. Give him some time to truly recover before making any decisions. Also, if they've never even met yet.....should not be getting attached to him that much without knowing him better. More like leave him on the backburner and if it works out in the end, great and if not, oh well.
 
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The signs are obvious, he's into someone else and not replying because his mind is else where. Operation..how do you know from chat relationship?
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They met in the net and usually chat everyday after dinner. He's had a week long operation and came back. She sent him lots of offline messages and only got one reply. Viewed his profile and read some comments about exchanging number with another lady. So what do you think? Go or NO go?
 
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Surgical or military operation?
 
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overyou wrote :
They met in the net and usually chat everyday after dinner. He's had a weeklong operation and came back. She sent him lots of offline messages and only got one reply. Viewed his profile and read some comments about exchanging number with another lady. So what do you think? Go or NO go?
Surgical or military operation?
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Hard to say. Have they ever met? Has he ever asked to meet?
Not yet but keen on planning this November. Yes he asked and even offered a pick up in the airport when she arrives.
 
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Military Operation
 
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