love_2004 is offline love_2004 Post #1  July 25,2009, 4:54pm
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Hi, i am new member of eharmony and i met this guy and we being talking over the phone and emails for about 3weeks now so what happened is this he being so nice to me imean sending me flowers and ballons and he told me that he loves me and so and so on and on..and how he was going to come and visit me all this things. what happened is this he want me to send he money because got in to an accident over where he is now and want to clear his bills so do you think he is what he told me he is or he is just a con man i mean just want to use my money? and i am already in love with him and i am imbarrassed that i can't help him and i might lose him. What should i do in this case? I need your help..
 
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JDavid is offline JDavid Post #2  July 25,2009, 5:25pm
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JDavid is offline JDavid Post #3  July 25,2009, 5:26pm
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CJF is offline CJF Post #4  July 25,2009, 5:27pm
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Too many red flags...

He has never met you in person but says he loves you..after three weeks?

Don't send him any money.....period. He's a s-c-a-m artist.
 
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love_2004 wrote :
Hi, i am new member of eharmony and i met this guy and we being talking over the phone and emails for about 3weeks now so what happened is this he being so nice to me imean sending me flowers and ballons and he told me that he loves me and so and so on and on..and how he was going to come and visit me all this things. what happened is this he want me to send he money because got in to an accident over where he is now and want to clear his bills so do you think he is what he told me he is or he is just a con man i mean just want to use my money? and i am already in love with him and i am imbarrassed that i can't help him and i might lose him. What should i do in this case? I need your help..
Is this some sort of joke? Like David said - report him to eHarmony. Immediately.
 
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love_2004 wrote :
Hi, i am new member of eharmony and i met this guy and we being talking over the phone and emails for about 3weeks now so what happened is this he being so nice to me imean sending me flowers and ballons and he told me that he loves me and so and so on and on..and how he was going to come and visit me all this things. what happened is this he want me to send he money because got in to an accident over where he is now and want to clear his bills so do you think he is what he told me he is or he is just a con man i mean just want to use my money? and i am already in love with him and i am imbarrassed that i can't help him and i might lose him. What should i do in this case? I need your help..
You know that yelling noise you're hearing in the back of your head? It's your intuition screaming at you that this guy is bad news.

You already know the answer to this on some level or you wouldn't have taken the time to post this. Now report him so no one else gets taken in by this "charmer."
 
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meri75 is offline meri75 Post #7  July 25,2009, 8:49pm
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love_2004 wrote :
Hi, i am new member of eharmony and i met this guy and we being talking over the phone and emails for about 3weeks now so what happened is this he being so nice to me imean sending me flowers and ballons and he told me that he loves me and so and so on and on..and how he was going to come and visit me all this things. what happened is this he want me to send he money because got in to an accident over where he is now and want to clear his bills so do you think he is what he told me he is or he is just a con man i mean just want to use my money? and i am already in love with him and i am imbarrassed that i can't help him and i might lose him. What should i do in this case? I need your help..
I agree with the advice of the other posters in that you should contact eHarmony and tell them about this and provide the name of your match. I know it is something you don't want to believe, but yes, he is scamming you. Let me ask you this: how usual is it for someone who has been in your life for less than one month to ask you for financial assistance? Please do not give him your money.
 
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Report the incident to the eHarmony staff.

Or better yet, to the Police or Interpol, depending on the location!
 
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