DCgal30 is offline DCgal30 Post #1  July 12,2009, 11:00am
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I was matched with someone on EH and we progressed to the point of talking on the phone. It seemed to go well, we talked for quite awhile but afterwards I got the old "I'll call you" and haven't heard back since. It's only been a few days, so it might not be a big deal. I just don't know where its going now. I would email him back and say hey, how's it going, but if he's not feeling it, than I'd rather just leave him alone. Should I contact him, or is he just not that into me?
 
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Emmma is offline Emmma Post #2  July 12,2009, 11:08am
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If it were me, I would not call. He said he would call so if he is interested he will call.
 
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carose is offline carose Post #3  July 12,2009, 11:43am
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I have been lucky to meet some quality guys on EH who say when they are going to call and don't leave things open ended and act flakey. There's nothing worse...the guy is obviously not reliable and is showing his true character.
Move on and Don't give up!
 
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PWR is offline PWR Post #4  July 12,2009, 3:12pm
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I find it interesting plenty of people no responses. When you try fasttrack I was ignored. Complete shutoff. I am used to
closing pages and have not met anybody for 1 year 5 months. PWR
 
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Doctora2012 is offline Doctora2012 Post #5  July 12,2009, 3:25pm
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Maybe follow up with a succint email just to say hello.

I'm guilty of saying "I'll call you" and sometimes don't. It's not because I'm not interested, but sometimes I get caught up with school stuff. I usually get quick "hey, how are you?" emails, and take the opportunity to reply and follow up as I originally intended....if the interest is there, of course.

There's no harm in sending him a quick email. If he doesn't respond, then it's safe to assume he's not interested and you can move on He may simply be too busy to call (or worse...maybe he's like me and doesn't really like to talk on the phone).


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