1boopaz is offline 1boopaz Post #1  July 10,2009, 8:32pm
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ok guess i need help badly. Me and my son's father was together for 3yrs on and off. i have myself together as far as a good job, car, home and i'm only 22. he is 24 and has none of the above expect a car which he just purchased. now i finally put him out b/c he was not helping w/ bills at our apt for almost a yr straight, quiting jobs like no tomorrow! i figured im struggling by myself and everyday im busting my ass ur out enjoyin yourself....then i can do it on my own right...but everytime i leave him instead of him doing the right thing gettin a job helping take care of our son, and tryn to get his family back he would rather get into other relationships and forget abt me and his son...now how could after all this i luv him and still want to be with him b.c i dnt wnt to be LONELY! dating is not an issue but i cant get over him been trying for 2yrs....
 
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j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #2  July 11,2009, 4:37pm
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Can you spell doormat?

He didn't even marry you! You would have called him your husband if he had. Let's see:

YOU = car, job, home
HIM = car

You pay the bills, because he's too lazy to work! He won't even support his own child, for God's sake!

Beats me why you'd want the lazy SOB.

Get a grip.
 
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you can live with a person for years and still feel lonely. don't settle because youre afraid of not having anyone, that can do more damage than good. and youre so young! trust me when i tell you there are better things out there for you and your son. this guy doesnt seem to be a very good role model for his own child and that should be more than enough incentive for you to want to move on. good luck!
 
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