shy_and_dating is offline shy_and_dating Post #1  July 10,2009, 2:47pm
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So we talked for about two weeks before we went on out first date and we have gone on three dates so far. Last night went out with some of my friends and he seemed to have a really good time, but he did not hold my hand, kiss me, or any PDA at all. He kissed me good night last night, but on our second date we cuddled and he held my hand and kissed me a lot and there seems to be a very big difference between the second and third date. I am not sure if because our second date we were alone and last night we were with my friends and he was just shy, or if maybe things have changed and he is not interested anymore. I am not sure what to do. I am trying to keep things casual, but I am use to dating guys who call a lot and are always around and this guy is really different. I like him, but I just can't tell if he is really into me or not because of how shy he is. Has anyone else dated a really shy guy and been unsure of his feelings? Please some advice would be great right now.
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #2  July 11,2009, 10:04pm
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Guys don't meet your friends if they don't like you. My guess is he was being a gentleman around your friends and keeping the kissing and cuddling stuff for the private time between the two of you. I wouldn't over-analyze it...just enjoy it!

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brneyedangel wrote :
Guys don't meet your friends if they don't like you. My guess is he was being a gentleman around your friends and keeping the kissing and cuddling stuff for the private time between the two of you. I wouldn't over-analyze it...just enjoy it!

Best wishes!
She's right. Perhaps you should ask him what the status is or just roll with it at the very least.
 
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Thank you to both of your comments. I am still trying to keep a positive attitude although it is hard now that he has not called for three days, and did not answer when I tried calling him last night. So still trying to be positive, but I guess I will just have to wait. Thank you for the comments.
 
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