LittlePrincess8 is offline LittlePrincess8 Post #1  July 10,2009, 1:38pm
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I became really close with this guy and we dated for about 9 months everything was really wonderful in our relationship. Well we kind of had a falling out and I haven't talked to him for a really long time. My family lost someone close to us recently and the first person I wanted to tell was him. I don't know why I don't have any desire to talk to him anymore; but he just popped into my head. Has this happened to anyone else or is it just me? Should I tell him or just ignore this feeling completely? If that made sense to anyone at all a little advice would be greatly appreciated (I'm not looking to be judged.. just a little advice if you have any) Thanks!
 
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j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #2  July 10,2009, 1:58pm
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I followed your train of thought.

But I would let it go.

We don't always have to act on our impulses.

Probably not what you wanted to hear, but that's my opinion. For what it's worth...
 
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j0hn8andy wrote :
I followed your train of thought.

But I would let it go.

We don't always have to act on our impulses.

Probably not what you wanted to hear, but that's my opinion. For what it's worth...
I completely agree. That's probably just going to open a whole can of worms that you're really not going to want to deal with in the long run.
 
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[FONT=Arial]It will cost you nothing to tell him, and you never know where it may lead …
 
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I can relate to this very well. He was the last one you were close to, you talked about everything and anything. You were there for each other and you want to share this sadness as well.

Problem is, it isn't him you want - or miss - it's the idea of having that person.

You can confirm that with a call if you want, or you could write him an email and not actually send it...
 
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I've been on the other side of this. I had a 'falling out' with a very close friend and we didn't talk to each other for over a year, when she called me up to tell me her beloved dog had died. In a way I kind of resented it, because I wasn't close to the dog, so (not to sound cold-hearted) but I didn't particularly care- and I felt like she was just trying to use me to make herself feel better. At the time, our friendship was OVER in both of our minds, so my reaction was pretty much- WTF?
Just food for thought. If you don't want to speak to him, ask yourself what are you trying to gain by telling him? Comfort? And does he owe you that? He probably won't think so at this point!
(just my 2 cents.)
 
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