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wired54321 is offline wired54321 Post #1  July 9,2009, 5:35pm
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I finally met someone who fit me perftic. We never aurgue and ive always treated her right. After 4 months she wants me to move out of my living situation (witch was bad) and in with her and her mom. We think about it and she decides it would be best if we did so we could save money and get our own place. We were in love with eachother. So i moved in and broke my leace where i lived 4 min walking to work to live with her 20 mins away. I moved everything in last week and was working all the time while she sat at home. The only time i was home was at night and we talked about our day and watched a movie and fell asleep. Two days ago she pickes me up from work then wants to go have a drink at a bar. We had never arugued untill that night where when we were talking out of the blue she says she dosent want to live with me and that it was to soon and we should stay together but for me to find a new place to live. This came unexpectly and i dident do anything wong so it brought our first aurgment. I was hurt and asked if she was lying to me and wanted to screw me over and make me helpless exc.and that i couldent be with someone who could do this to me out of no where. I still get in the car and go back to her house and we talk some more and i said i was sorry for aurging that i was just hurt and it was in the heat of the moment and that i was willing to find a new place to live and still be together. Then she says im just like the rest and cant be with someone who aurges with her. I spilled my guts to her and she still refused to want to be with me. No im stuck living downstairs in her mothers house with her not having anywhere else to go and i cant stop thinking about what happend and why it did. Im convinced theirs not someone else but have no idea what to say or do. We dont talk because she dosent want to talk to me and im very uncomfertable being here not saying a word to each other and having no where else to go. What happened? And what do i do?
 
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j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #2  July 10,2009, 4:05pm
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I'm going to overlook the run-on sentences, the spelling, the drama.

Get your own place. Again.

I would go into further detail except the run-on sentences, spelling, drama made me tired. Sorry if I sound rude, I prefer being nice.
 
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adonna is offline adonna Post #3  July 10,2009, 6:02pm
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I think alot of us would like to vote on your poll. But the choices don't make sense.

But I can tell you that you will feel better when you move out and get yourself together. Try hard to get your mind on other things and stay positive. Do something nice for yourself. Go out and have some fun.

Life is short. Celebrate Life!
 
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Your girlfriend sounds like she may be difficult. The 4 months that you were together probably did not include the stress that you will experience when living together. She can't take it. She obviously has very little patience & once she reached that point it will take a major backing off on your part for her to have any chance of feeling positively toward you.

You definitely made a bad move by moving in so soon especially with her mother as well.

Do you want to go further into a relationship knowing that you will likely have her lack of patience & inability to deal with stress on a regular basis?
 
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