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ddrum83 is offline ddrum83 Post #1  July 7,2009, 4:25pm
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I have been speaking to a woman since April 27th. We have exchanged around 10 emails and I have asked if she would like to talk on the phone/get together three times (the last time I left my number). She answers other questions and asks me her own but ignores my question about getting together!! What do I say to her to make her understand that I am interested in her, serious about meeting someone, but not come off as being desperate?

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She is ignoring it because for whatever reason she is not ready/comfortable with moving forward. All you can do at this point is ask her directly why she is ignoring you and why she is uncomfortable with talking to you on the phone. Be polite but straightforward and see what she has to say.
 
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She just isn't that into you.
 
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Wiseman2 is online now Wiseman2 Post #4  July 8,2009, 9:45am
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That's a long time not to actually meet her. So what is she hiding? Married? Seeing someone else?Her real looks?, Try to find some more out, use email to ask other simple casual questions about her, and why she won't actually meet may become clearer
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I have been speaking to a woman since April 27th. We have exchanged around 10 emails and I have asked if she would like to talk on the phone/get together three times (the last time I left my number). She answers other questions and asks me her own but ignores my question about getting together!! What do I say to her to make her understand that I am interested in her, serious about meeting someone, but not come off as being desperate?

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Wiseman2 wrote :
That's a long time not to actually meet her. So what is she hiding? Married? Seeing someone else?Her real looks?, Try to find some more out, use email to ask other simple casual questions about her, and why she won't actually meet may become clearer



Or all of the above?

Seriously, you either have to ask her why, or continue on as you are.

 
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tweet37 wrote :
She just isn't that into you.
thank goodness that book/movie came out- otherwise we would have no snappy response to these postings.
 
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i agree with tweet. she's not that into you
 
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tweet37 wrote :
She just isn't that into you.
scarlet13 wrote :
thank goodness that book/movie came out- otherwise we would have no snappy response to these postings.
Um, that's been a snappy response around here for a lot longer than when the book/movie came out.
 
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move on! don't waste anymore of your time.
 
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Um, that's been a snappy response around here for a lot longer than when the book/movie came out.
yeah, right.
 
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