ChristOne is offline ChristOne Post #1  July 6,2009, 10:29pm
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What about men who want a woman to take care of them so they won't have to work.... I am financially secure, and have accepted being alone, because I tend to be very trusting and naive in the beginning of relationships. Then when I am involved, all I find is another "player". I would just appreciate a man who works and has an automobile of his own...burnt.
 
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What about men who want a woman to take care of them so they won't have to work.... I am financially secure, and have accepted being alone, because I tend to be very trusting and naive in the beginning of relationships. Then when I am involved, all I find is another "player". I would just appreciate a man who works and has an automobile of his own...burnt.
 
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how did he manage to do that to you?

(getting pencil and paper ready for notes)
 
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Give yourself more time in the beginnings to explore who he really is and how you feel. We each reveal who we are, our character, and what we value in time...time takes time. There's no rush. Enjoy the exploration and discovery of yourself and him.
 
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You're financially secure, want a man who works and has a car. Those things are not unreasonable.

To become involved with "players" IS unreasonable when it's not what you want. You don't have to become "involved" with just anyone. Raise the bar.

If you date a man who works and has a car, you stand a better chance of getting what you want.

Have the confidence in yourself not to settle for just anyone who asks you out. Make sure he works and has that car. At the very least!
 
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ChristOne wrote :
What about men who want a woman to take care of them so they won't have to work.... I am financially secure, and have accepted being alone, because I tend to be very trusting and naive in the beginning of relationships. Then when I am involved, all I find is another "player". I would just appreciate a man who works and has an automobile of his own...burnt.
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how did he manage to do that to you?

(getting pencil and paper ready for notes)
*pulls up a chair next to bubba*
 
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I think you have two very different issues here:
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Do you have an innate desire to save others? An attraction to needy SOs is not an uncommon thing. Unfortunately, it's really hard on you. The dynamic is just intrinsically unhealthy.
 
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txbubba is offline txbubba Post #9  July 9,2009, 7:06am

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tweet37 wrote :
*pulls up a chair next to bubba*
tweet, what can i say? i just believe in equal rights and all that
 
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I'd never try to be a freeloader, but if after marriage my wife is making more than enough to support the family on her own, I would be fine with not working.
 
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