meorhim32 is offline meorhim32 Post #1  July 6,2009, 8:34am
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My boyfriend of two years tells me "Everything is not on your time anymore" and then stops calling me. I have heard from him once in three days. What happened? What do I do? Help!
 
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oostitch is offline oostitch Post #2  July 7,2009, 1:08pm
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well that's not a whole lot of information he gave you! it could mean anything. im not sure what kind of relationship you had but it kind of sounds like he wants to do his own thing, at least for now. if he's still keeping contact with you maybe it's not that bad.
 
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When you two would do things, plan things, who would plan, who adapted? Did you make adequate time for him? Were you often late? Did you make him work around your schedule often? Most guys feel their jobs/ time are very important to them and need that respected. Not that your time is not equally important, but if he has to work around your schedules all the time, he will feel controlled and disrespected. Just ask him
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My boyfriend of two years tells me "Everything is not on your time anymore" and then stops calling me. I have heard from him once in three days. What happened? What do I do? Help!
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #4  July 7,2009, 3:34pm
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Realize that he's a rubber band, and needs some time to snap back.
 
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Realize that he's a rubber band, and needs some time to snap back.
 
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I agree. I think it sounds like he's been talking when you want to, seeing each other when you want to, etc. Now he's thinking he needs some time to figure out what HE wants, and when.
 
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