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I'm 21 years old, and getting ready to graduate from college. I only dated 2 guys in HS - and they ended up being the 'best friend' type. Haven't dated anyone in college.

I recently started talking to a few people on eharmony. The guys seem very nice, and what I'm looking for in a potential partner. I just don't know what to do now!! I guess I just don't know how to flirt or show that I'm interested in more than just friendship. I feel like that's possibly the main reason I haven't dated anyone in college - I act like a good, understanding best friend - I don't know what to do to say 'I'm attracted to you!' I mean, how do you move on after that? What's an acceptable way of flirting, realizing I come from a more conservative Christian upbringing? And if flirting is just about 'cues,' how does open communication start about how you're feeling about a potential relationship?

My questions feel very naive. This is the only area of my life I don't feel comfortable with. I guess I don't even know what adds to a relationship, past being friends? I haven't been kissed before, and that whole concept scares me too....I just don't know how you know it's right!

Does any of this make sense??
 
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