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like i said before, it's interesting to hear different views on the subject, good and bad! and it got plenty of attention! but since i hurt a few guy's feelings on here i deleted the list and i do apologize if it made you angry that was not my intention!!!
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I'd say. Imagine this applied to women:
1. Nice women are fat.
2. Beautiful women are biaches.
3. Beautiful nice women are toxic, psycho, gold diggers.

All I can say is thank God for gay men, as a woman's best friend they are.
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Yes, you are best off dating a Frog!
- July 4th, 2009, 09:03 am
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pamcam wrote :
I'd say. Imagine this applied to women:
1. Nice women are fat.
I used to be fat. I lost the weight but got to keep the nice. It was a parting gift.
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oostitch wrote :
I found this list and i thought it was a great read and somewhat true (i know there are always exceptions) but i'm curious to hear how both the guys and the girls feel about it and how accurate it may be.

1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay!
4. The handsome nice, and heterosexual men, are married.
5. The men that are not so handsome, but nice, have no money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice, with money think we are only about their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don’t think we are beautiful enough.
9. The men who are some what handsome somewhat nice, and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy...... AND NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
10. The men who never make the first move automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.
I hope this is all tongue in cheek. If not, then I really feel sorry for you.
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pamcam wrote :
I'd say. Imagine this applied to women:
1. Nice women are fat.
2. Beautiful women are biaches.
3. Beautiful nice women are toxic, psycho, gold diggers.

All I can say is thank God for gay men, as a woman's best friend they are.
LOL. Excellent response!
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I always favor the late bloomer as they have to develop a personality early on and have plenty of time to devote to increasing their intelligence before they become attractive and start getting attention!

Even better is to recognize the attractive characteristics before they are apparent to anyone else (this usually requires personal grooming tips from you!) and by the time anyone notices how great they are, you've already snapped them up! ...leading to #4 above.

At least that's my hypothesis. I'll let you know how it works out.
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D_Lion wrote :
Yes, you are best off dating a Frog!
So Frog... What are the benefits to dating a frog?
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Male response! Beware, beware: the following comment may sound muffled due to typing with tongue surgically implanted in cheek!

1. Most ugly men can be made more handsome, with some work (if they are willing).
2. Not nice men are not worth your time.
3. Nice, handsome, gay men are apparently a girl’s "best friend," and if you’re male and gay, they’re great!
4. The nice, handsome, hetero married men have the nice, intelligent, pretty (and hetero) women all locked up in marriage.
5. The not-so-handsome, but nice men with no money only sound bad if you’re after their money, or *really* need handsomeness, or if they’re lazy- verrrry similar to not so nice (see no. 2 above).
6. The nice, handsome, loaded men are not so nice if they think you’re after their munificent hoard (see no 2 above).
7. The handsome men who are after *your* munificent hoard are not nice (see no. 2 above)
8. The handsome, not-so-nice, metrosexual men are- *not so nice.* (see no. 2 above)
9. The kinda nice, sorta handsome, very hetero men who are shy will eventually get over it, or lose nice status (it *ain’t* nice to string a girl along- see no. 2 above).
10. The ones who never make the first move but lose interest when you do are not so nice (see no. 2 above)

And on a somewhat more serious note, as other posters have mentioned… You think its *easy* for us nice, ugly, poor, and hetero guys to get a date? *grin* You know, the ones with too much pride to be sniffing around your munificent hoard, who have the stones to ask *you* out first, the ones not looking to play your emotions like a string quartet? Guys like that are out there, good ladies. Give ‘em a chance to show you they’re up to the challenge.
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oostitch wrote :
I found this list and i thought it was a great read and somewhat true (i know there are always exceptions) but i'm curious to hear how both the guys and the girls feel about it and how accurate it may be.

1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay!
4. The handsome nice, and heterosexual men, are married.
5. The men that are not so handsome, but nice, have no money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice, with money think we are only about their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don’t think we are beautiful enough.
9. The men who are some what handsome somewhat nice, and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy...... AND NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
10. The men who never make the first move automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.

Chinese fortune cookie say "woman who hate man dangerous while holding knife or when man sleep."
Male bashing and looking for a man-how's that working out for you?
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