islandrain80 is offline islandrain80 Post #1  July 2,2009, 12:04pm
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It's clear a guy isn't interested. Yet you still have that tiny spark of hope. You attempt contact and it goes unanswered. You figured it would, but still tried.

At least I did

Though, it doesn't hurt as much as it did the 1st time around.
 
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oostitch is offline oostitch Post #2  July 2,2009, 12:28pm
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i understand you totally. i think it's wishful thinking and you say to yourself you'll give it one more try and if he doesnt answer then you'll know but you end up feeling worse than before when he doesnt respond. you shouldnt let it get you though if it's someone youve only met once or spoke on the phone with a few times.
 
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islandrain80 is offline islandrain80 Post #3  July 2,2009, 12:31pm
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oostitch wrote :
i understand you totally. i think it's wishful thinking and you say to yourself you'll give it one more try and if he doesnt answer then you'll know but you end up feeling worse than before when he doesnt respond. you shouldnt let it get you though if it's someone youve only met once or spoke on the phone with a few times.
Trying not to...but the few dates we had I felt really comfortable around him (which, being shy,usually takes longer then that).
 
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AustinShaguar is offline AustinShaguar Post #5  July 2,2009, 1:41pm
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Unfortunately (or is it fortunate) it takes both parties to agree to have a relationship. Daggumit, why can't I just club the one on want on the head and drag her into my cave.

p.s. Probably the same reason I wouldn't want to be clubbed over the head myself. LOL!
 
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AustinShaguar wrote :
Unfortunately (or is it fortunate) it takes both parties to agree to have a relationship. Daggumit, why can't I just club the one on want on the head and drag her into my cave.

p.s. Probably the same reason I wouldn't want to be clubbed over the head myself. LOL!
Definitely, it is fortunate.
 
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AustinShaguar wrote :
Daggumit, why can't I just club the one on want on the head and drag her into my cave.
What's the fun in the that?
 
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If a guy doesn't want you, then find one who does! Don't beat yourself up. Obviously he has something going on that doesn't have to do with you. You deserve a guy who wants to pursue you. And that they should- they should be chasing YOU! Not the other way around.
 
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AustinShaguar wrote :
Unfortunately (or is it fortunate) it takes both parties to agree to have a relationship. Daggumit, why can't I just club the one on want on the head and drag her into my cave.

p.s. Probably the same reason I wouldn't want to be clubbed over the head myself. LOL!



You have made my day over & over today. LOLOL
 
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #10  July 2,2009, 3:38pm
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bonfiredancer wrote :
If a guy doesn't want you, then find one who does! Don't beat yourself up. Obviously he has something going on that doesn't have to do with you. You deserve a guy who wants to pursue you. And that they should- they should be chasing YOU! Not the other way around.
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