Twinner is offline Twinner Post #1  July 1,2009, 3:56pm
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I met a guy 6 months ago..he is a supplier for my office. Have flirted relentlessly ever since! He brings me gifts, always compliments me -- how I'm beautiful, seeing me makes his day, seeing me is always his pleasure, rearranged his delivery schedule so that he could see me..etc... but he has not asked me out. He is not a smooth talker, in fact, is visibly nervous & flustered around me (blushing, stuttering, drops things).

Is he being slick or shy?

Thanks in advance to anyone who might reply!
 
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txbubba is offline txbubba Post #2  July 1,2009, 6:31pm

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sue his company for sexual harassment

j/k... ask him out. it appears that he really likes you
 
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AustinShaguar is offline AustinShaguar Post #3  July 1,2009, 6:46pm
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Take him to lunch. After all, according to you he's put in a bit of effort. Just tell him he's been so nice to you that you'd like to treat him to lunch.
 
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musmusculus is offline musmusculus Post #4  July 1,2009, 6:55pm
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He's probably shy. I agree with the other responses so far. Help the poor guy out and ask him out for lunch if you're interested in him.
 
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He likes you tons but is pretty shy I imagine and might not be sure how you feel about him. I'd just throw some hints out about a restaurant you like or something and that you haven't been able to go to it in a long time. He should take the hint but were pretty dense sometimes so you might have to be the one to take the initiative.
 
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He is really shy and will most likely take forever to ask you out. Take some pity on him and ask him out. My instincts tell me once he goes out with you he will really open up. Good luck
 
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Six months and he just comes by to flirt, not ask you out? He is probably a real flirt with everyone , next stop after your office ,etc. He's probably also already in a relationship and sees flirting as harmless fun and likes the attention from the women. Sorry , some guys (especially the lookers and charmers) are just like that. A big flirt, whether in a relationship or not.
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I met a guy 6 months ago..he is a supplier for my office. Have flirted relentlessly ever since! He brings me gifts, always compliments me -- how I'm beautiful, seeing me makes his day, seeing me is always his pleasure, rearranged his delivery schedule so that he could see me..etc... but he has not asked me out. He is not a smooth talker, in fact, is visibly nervous & flustered around me (blushing, stuttering, drops things).

Is he being slick or shy?

Thanks in advance to anyone who might reply!
 
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timeless2 is offline timeless2 Post #8  July 2,2009, 6:00am
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The only way to know is to ask him.
 
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Twinner wrote :
I met a guy 6 months ago..he is a supplier for my office. Have flirted relentlessly ever since! He brings me gifts, always compliments me -- how I'm beautiful, seeing me makes his day, seeing me is always his pleasure, rearranged his delivery schedule so that he could see me..etc... but he has not asked me out. He is not a smooth talker, in fact, is visibly nervous & flustered around me (blushing, stuttering, drops things).

Is he being slick or shy?

Thanks in advance to anyone who might reply!
He obviously likes you and is feeling you out for reciprocation.

If you like him, ask him out since he is too shy to make the first move.

If you do, you'll find he is more than happy to make it up to you later.

He's a nice guy.........not many of those left.
 
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Raw_Truth is offline Raw_Truth Post #10  July 2,2009, 7:29am
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I'm going to go a bit with shyness plus a hefty helping of the fear of mixing work and pleasure. Though you don't work together your two companies do.
 
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