Mirella is offline Mirella Post #1  July 1,2009, 1:58pm
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I recently met a man online, everything was great for more than a week on teh phone, he seemed very considerate but after we met he sent me an email that he thinks things are going to fast and I havent heard a word since
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #2  July 1,2009, 3:24pm
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Mirella wrote :
I recently met a man online, everything was great for more than a week on teh phone, he seemed very considerate but after we met he sent me an email that he thinks things are going to fast and I havent heard a word since
As much as I hate to say it, it sounds to me that things didn't click for him when the two of you met. I would suggest you move on to other matches and opportunities, and I wish you the best of luck!
 
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brneyedangel wrote :
As much as I hate to say it, it sounds to me that things didn't click for him when the two of you met. I would suggest you move on to other matches and opportunities, and I wish you the best of luck!
I rarely do this, but +1

There is a slight chance he wants to take it slow, but that's not what my instinct tells me. When a guy is really interested, he usually calls or emails me the same evening, or the next day or two at the most.
 
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i'm going through something similar, or went i should say. we dated for a month and he suddenly stopped with no explanation and no response. after one date though you shouldnt really let it get to you. move on, there's someone out there much better for you mirella. and communicate to more than one person on EH so you have more options and less chance of getting hurt. you'll eventually click with the right one and stick with that one. at least he gave you an excuse, not the best one but it still provides closure for you. good luck!
 
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oostitch wrote :
i'm going through something similar, or went i should say. we dated for a month and he suddenly stopped with no explanation and no response. after one date though you shouldnt really let it get to you. move on, there's someone out there much better for you mirella. and communicate to more than one person on EH so you have more options and less chance of getting hurt. you'll eventually click with the right one and stick with that one. at least he gave you an excuse, not the best one but it still provides closure for you. good luck!
+1

Also..he was underwhelmed by your first meetup. "I think we should take things slowly" is another way of saying "im not into you and hope you'll forget about me so I dont have to straight up tell you its not going to work out"
 
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Eh, go read that book He's Just Not That Into You, and then realize that he's just not that into you.

Well, you don't have to read the book now, do you.
 
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Yup, he met you and he didn't see what he was looking for. Yeah, I know....dating sux. Going to the dentist is child's play!
 
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Mr_Right wrote :
Eh, go read that book He's Just Not That Into You, and then realize that he's just not that into you.

Well, you don't have to read the book now, do you.

The book is still a good read though! Really funny!
 
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I think we;ve all been thru this in some capacity. I was with someone who i didnt see but maybe maybe once a week if that, and he would only talk to me every 4 days or so. but then randomly about once a week he'd call me and say he's missed me and he's been so busy and wants to be with me.
We dated for two months and it was hard for me, cause everytime we were together i felt incredible, and i loved every second of it, and so did he apparently. he would always say how much he liked me, and how he could spend his life with me and such...but he was awful at communication.

I dont have to see someone everyday, but if i'm going to be with them, i want to talk to them at least once, in some capacity everyday.
 
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angelofmerci is offline angelofmerci Post #10  July 2,2009, 4:31am
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I definitely would not wait around for his email or call. Move on and if he catches up then ask him what took so long. Good luck
 
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