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Well this man and I met online and we had some wonderful dinners and time together. He said he even would start subscribing cable for me. We laugh so much due to his intellectual teasing and his way of figuring me out. I give the impression that I prefer my ways most of the time but I"m quite flexible.

He's 40, ready for a family that's what he says. I'm 40 have a 3 year old, reading to start anew. I've been divorced for a year and a half, and am still going through some legal custody battles.

The morning I left him to head home we were still laughing and he said he would see me at the party at 2pm at my brother in law's place. I told him to bring the bottle of wine he bought for me and to wear that blue shirt. He smiled and said yes.

Close to two I got a voicemail saying I can't make it, and I can't get a hold of him at all. I stopped calling after two times. I texted two messages saying it's not a big deal and don't feel pressured. No phone calls or text messages for two days. No explanation.

I was disappointed. Perhaps he's not ready as he thinks.

My thinking is that he is feeling pressured. I talked too much about starting a family with him too quickly, but I thought at this age if you don't start soon, when? I put everything on the table, my issues and so on.

What really had happened?

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My thinking is that he had one or more other women he was investigating to be a dating partner, and decided he has at least one better option.
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confusing wrote :
Well this man and I met online and we had some wonderful dinners and time together. He said he even would start subscribing cable for me. We laugh so much due to his intellectual teasing and his way of figuring me out. I give the impression that I prefer my ways most of the time but I"m quite flexible.

He's 40, ready for a family that's what he says. I'm 40 have a 3 year old, reading to start anew. I've been divorced for a year and a half, and am still going through some legal custody battles.

The morning I left him to head home we were still laughing and he said he would see me at the party at 2pm at my brother in law's place. I told him to bring the bottle of wine he bought for me and to wear that blue shirt. He smiled and said yes.

Close to two I got a voicemail saying I can't make it, and I can't get a hold of him at all. I stopped calling after two times. I texted two messages saying it's not a big deal and don't feel pressured. No phone calls or text messages for two days. No explanation.

I was disappointed. Perhaps he's not ready as he thinks.

My thinking is that he is feeling pressured. I talked too much about starting a family with him too quickly, but I thought at this age if you don't start soon, when? I put everything on the table, my issues and so on.

What really had happened?

Confused...
Does he work for Comcast?

[COLOR="rgb(153, 50, 204)"]Booty call? How many times did you sleep with him?[/COLOR]

I think that he was/is an @$$ that played you. He played to what you wanted and he got what he wanted. Forget about Mr. Jerkface and find someone who will treat you better.
 
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