Gigolz is offline Gigolz Post #1  June 7,2009, 4:12pm
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Since I am fairly new to this, I thought I'd give it a shot to see what kind of feedback I got. Well I've been communicating with someone and we used the guided communication to finally the last level which I think is the open communication part. From the time that we were first matched and actually started communicating it took a good 3 weeks. Well in between the guided communication it took him about a week or so to answer questions and respond, but he did and we started e-mailing each other back a forth a couple of times and I sent him the last e-mail and haven't heard from him since. He seemed very interested and was excited that we had gotten to this level of communication but now I'm wondering what happended? It's been a week that I haven't heard anything, should I wait a couple of more days and send him a "friendly reminder" or should I just let it go and move on. I am very interested in this guy and through our guided communication I feel like we are a very close match. If things progress (God willing) it would be a long distance relationship and I am ok with that, that was one of the 1st questions covered. Could he just be a really busy person or something came up (family situation), it did take us almost a good 3 weeks to get the communication started, am I being a little too impatient? Well any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 
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txbubba is offline txbubba Post #2  June 9,2009, 12:41pm

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you're not the only match he has received.

and i don't know why but... for some reason, a lot of people on this thing think its ok to date multiple people at once
 
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DontCallMe_IllCallYou is offline DontCallMe_IllCallYou Post #3  June 9,2009, 1:09pm
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That seems to me, at least from my experience, to be too long of a time to have the guided communication last. I would also take the lack of response as a sign he is not that interested. I had the same thing happen and while it's not a good feeling, at least you didn't waste a lot of time on him.

Txbubba, Why isn't it okay to date more than one person?
 
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