Leafsg is offline Leafsg Post #1  May 27,2009, 4:31pm
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Hi guys and girls.

I have been single for almost 9 years, mostly because the girls i have wanted to date have rejected me for a date or have hurt me by breaking my heart by saying they are not interested. I also feel depressed because i am single and often end up crying about it. I am also unemployed, plus some people think i am too aggressive when trying to get a date (whatever that means) and am too needy.

I should also mention that i hate being single.

How do i go about finding a girlfriend who will not reject me for a date?
 
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #2  May 27,2009, 4:40pm
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Um, well, uh … that could take awhile.

Even if you weren’t any of those things.

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Is your experience approaching women you know, strangers, or online?
 
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EMTZ is offline EMTZ Post #3  May 27,2009, 5:00pm
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Personally, if I'm in the situation where I have no income, my top priority will be to do things so that I have income instead of looking for a relationship.

I imagine having some income will improve your confidence as well, which can help you win a date. Better confidence will usually help one to be less needy, which should also help your dating life.
 
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there are bigger factors at play than you needing a date.

A job would be a great place to start.
 
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You need more help than we can provide. Perhaps a combination of a job and therapy would be best.
 
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Leafsg is offline Leafsg Post #6  May 28,2009, 8:22am
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D_Lion wrote :
Um, well, uh … that could take awhile.

Even if you weren’t any of those things.

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Well i am always worried about creeping out girls in person by saying the wrong things. I have never had anyone to teach me how to approach girls in person.
 
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meanminicooper wrote :
there are bigger factors at play than you needing a date.

A job would be a great place to start.
That is true, but even when i did have a job, i still had trouble finding a girlfriend.
 
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Leafsg is offline Leafsg Post #8  May 28,2009, 8:24am
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Mr_Right wrote :
You need more help than we can provide. Perhaps a combination of a job and therapy would be best.
That is a very good Idea. I just wish i knew what kind of therapist could best help me in this situation.
 
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