RisskyRoo is offline RisskyRoo Post #1  May 13,2009, 6:01am
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I met this guy in December 2008 the begining of summer in perth at an exclusive night club while out wit sum girlfriends.He is from manchester uk and im from australia perth.

I luvd his accent and was attracted to him straight away. we got talking and then went for a walk around perth till we got to his hostel. he then drove me home. and of course we hooked up. didnt think much of it thought it was a one night stand and was going to leave it there as i knew he was travelling and couldnt really go anywhere.

the next morning he asked for my number i was stunned as i just thought it was a 1 night stand.

then later in the week he txt me and he came round to my place he started talking about a future wit me only small talk but enough info was given to suggest it was going further.
the only sucky thing was i was flying home to sydney at the end of the week. he came over and took me to the airport.

i flew home to sydney and was talking to him all the time via txt. he was always the 1st to txt tho. at that point it was new so didnt think much.

then he flew home to manchester i knew it was either manchester or NZ. he ran out of money. so he went home.


didnt think much of it until i was on facebook and he started again; 1st one to write to me and ask me when i was cuming to uk and i wud be welcome at his when ever i wanted. he asks question like do i miss him? whot does that mean? Does he miss me;and now he's cuming bak to NZ and wants me to cum visit from perth which i am thinking about going, but i want to know how do i know if its sumthing more or just sex and fun. and again wants me to stay wit him while in NZ and has also joked about marring me.
what shall i do? im interestd but am a little scared putting my heart on my sleeve incase he only wants 2 things? sex or a passport?
please help?
sorry its so long.
 
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BikerBeagle is offline BikerBeagle Post #2  May 13,2009, 6:50am
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Lots of relationships have been started on less ...but, in this case, the only helpful advice I can offer is to follow your gut instincts. There are certainly more than a few red flags here to consider.
 
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Welcome to EHadvice Risskyroo,

Since you have known this guy for six months hopefully you know what his occupation is and what sort of family ties he has at home. I do not know what Australian immigration laws are like presently but I think at one time a person could not immigrate unless there was a need for their abilities. Try to find out about current immigration laws before you dive off the deep end. This guy could be scamming you or he could be on the up and up. Good luck
 
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