sterling08 is offline sterling08 Post #1  May 11,2009, 1:47am
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Hey guys and gals. I'm a 20 year old guy in the Marines in California for training. I met a wonderful married couple that, when they found out I was single, wanted to hook me up with their sister/sister-in-law. she comes out here to visit in about two weeks and we have some fun plans when she gets here. The problem is.. I don't want to send to strong of a vibe that I'm interested and scare her off. How do I let her know that I'm interested (if I am) without being too upfront? Also, what would I say to persue a relationship without sounding like a highschool boy "hey, you wanna go on a date?" One more thing: how do I know that she's interested? thanks for your input and good luck out there!!
 
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Kharn is offline Kharn Post #2  May 11,2009, 11:46am
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Wait until you meet her before you decide you do not want to scare her off. ;-)
And dating in your early 20s is almostthe same as dating in HS, "want to hang out?" still works.
 
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Forget the relationship thing for now anyway. You're in the military and she lives far apart from you. Adding to that, you're only 20. 20 year old Marines don't need to be in any kind of relationship. Ask any of your commanding officers who are loosing their pensions to someone they met when they were 20.


How to ask her out? I think that's already been done for you by her sister/brother-in-law!


As for knowing if she's interested. You're going to have to guess son. Most young women learn really quickly how not to show their hand in they're interested in a guy. They want that guy to chase them. Don't chase. Let her do the chasing. That's how you'll know she's interested. You have your orders son...execute them!
 
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sterling08, wrote :

Hey guys and gals. I'm a 20 year old guy in the Marines in California for training. I met a wonderful married couple that, when they found out I was single, wanted to hook me up with their sister/sister-in-law. she comes out here to visit in about two weeks and we have some fun plans when she gets here. The problem is.. I don't want to send to strong of a vibe that I'm interested and scare her off. How do I let her know that I'm interested (if I am) without being too upfront? Also, what would I say to persue a relationship without sounding like a highschool boy "hey, you wanna go on a date?" One more thing: how do I know that she's interested? thanks for your input and good luck out there!!
Is she really hot? Have you seen her picture?


Just relax, have a good time, if she's a total babe and you need some more advice just come on back here and us old guys will help you out.
 
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