#1 Surprising Reason Men Said They Chose Their Wife

#1 Surprising Reason Men Said They Chose Their Wife

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#1 Surprising Reason Men Said They Chose Their Wife


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Pilgrim007 is offline Pilgrim007 Post #91  December 23,2010, 7:58pm
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This is an excellent article.  The woman I am dating now is kind to those who can do nothing for her.  She hugs an 80 year old man every Sunday in church because it makes his week.  She teaches a Down Syndrome child in Sunday School.  Neither of these can do anything for her; yet she is sweet on them.  I love her all the more because she cares for those who can do nothing for her.  For this reason, I plan on doing everything and being everything for her.  When I win her heart I plan on sweeping her off her feet.
 
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gussguss is offline gussguss Post #92  December 25,2010, 2:30pm
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 have a question and need lots of advice because im 100% confused. so im falling for this guy, and im almost sure that hes falling for me too..but of course theres a catch..hes my brothers best friend..and my brother and him have moved home (my house_) with us for a bit. so me and the guy share my upstairs(separate rooms) and my brother stays in his old room. they've been here for about 4 months now but ive known his friend before hand.
we have light flirts and good conversations (EX- he feels its important he keeps the promises he makes to mee, he holds onto a pair of my small cute socks in his room, we have cute little pillow fights, he got me a thoughtful gift for x-mas, picks on me like cute little make-funs)
 but i feel like hes holding back because of him being best friends with my brother, and i completely understand where he's coming from but how do i let him know its okay to take "us" further? so does he like me..?
 
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Commitment requires trust. Trust is a form of disarming. Tenderness nurtures disarming.

Tenderness displays strength when it is given to others. Tenderness displays marriage potential when it is given to me.
 
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Xable is offline Xable Post #94  December 28,2010, 9:01am
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Yeah, I think guys look for niceness when they start thinking about marriage and long term and stuff. BUT...

It doesn't matter how nice a gal is if she doesn't get past his looks meter. To imply that the number one thing guys are after is niceness is wrong.

The number one thing they look for is someone they find attractive. After that, niceness plays a big part. If a girl is good looking but not nice, she might be good for the short term but nothing more than that.

But if a gal isn't attractive, it doesn't matter a fig how nice she is. Not one bit.
 
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