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christie2009 is offline christie2009 Post #1  March 1,2009, 2:58pm
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I'm confused...We started open communication and then he gave me his email and msn address and said he looked forward to chattingfurther. I added him to msn and the next day he was online, but away, so I sent a "hi" message. that was almost 4 days ago. We are on each other's msn, but he still hasn't even sent me an email. What was the point of him giving me his hotmail and msn info??? Am I expecting too much that he contact me, by now???
 
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I just recently had a probelm with my business email account, which I wouldn't have known unless someone hadn't of called and said they kept getting a delivery failure notice. The point is, sometimes wires get crossed and things don't go right. Why not send an email and say that you tried instant messaging him and haven't heard back yet, just want to make sure you have the right address.


If you still don't hear back, then perhaps he's in a coma.
 
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I second coma. Major epidemic among flakey guys.
 
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LOL, coma thx for that!


Well we added each other to msn and i've logged in and he was there, but it said busy or he'd have a description saying where he was (not at home), which i understand of course. Both yesterday and today i went online, he was there, but it said away, but then he'd change his description or would then be offline, but having never said Hi, to me. From a guys perspective, what was the point?? From a womens' perspective this guy has issues?
 
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christie2009,511005 wrote :

LOL, coma thx for that!


Well we added each other to msn and i've logged in and he was there, but it said busy or he'd have a description saying where he was (not at home), which i understand of course. Both yesterday and today i went online, he was there, but it said away, but then he'd change his description or would then be offline, but having never said Hi, to me. From a guys perspective, what was the point?? From a womens' perspective this guy has issues?
Does he have kids that might be online?
 
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No he's doesn't have any kids and I know that he keeps himself busy, based on the open communication emails we had on eharmony. He was very complimentary about my profile and my pic and stressed he wanted to have more chats.


I've been out of the dating game for a bit, but I'm not so out of it that i am wrong for expecting him to have at least sent me an email, if there was some kind of technical problem-even if he didn't know there was a prob. His profile seemed like a normal enough guy...I guess i was wrong. I miss the days of talking on the phone (sigh).
 
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christie2009,511005 wrote :

LOL, coma thx for that!


Well we added each other to msn and i've logged in and he was there, but it said busy or he'd have a description saying where he was (not at home), which i understand of course. Both yesterday and today i went online, he was there, but it said away, but then he'd change his description or would then be offline, but having never said Hi, to me. From a guys perspective, what was the point?? From a womens' perspective this guy has issues?
He doesn't have any issue that's more special than the next flakey guy.


Even if you're not out of practice, the same 80%-20% rule applies. 80% of your communication efforts will go to waste (no crying), and at best 20% might strike up a conversation (don't be too optimistic). From that 20%, take another 80%-20%. So 20% of that 20% might lead to a first date (don't expect too much). It's like March Madness sans the Final Four intensity!
 
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Very true...it's all in perspective now...sometimes you just gotta talk it out.


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I would suggest stop checking, he's not interested. Next?
 
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Give him time to chase you, he's got your address, if he's interested, you'll know it. I agree, he sounds flaky at the moment.
 
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