eHarmony Profile Makeover: March 2008


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gcw317 is offline gcw317 Post #261  April 28,2009, 10:05am
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I have readed what the experts are saying I need some help with my profile what can you do to


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markmeringolo1970 is offline markmeringolo1970 Post #262  May 4,2009, 5:50am
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I have recently joined eHarmony and would like any suggestions your experts may have for me.





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verylibra is offline verylibra Post #263  May 4,2009, 1:42pm
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neardc is offline neardc Post #264  May 4,2009, 2:47pm
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Given the many pages of "hopefuls" here who have not been picked for a profile makeover (Is anyone getting picked? This article is now over a year old...), it appears that quite a few people are anxious to get some feedback on their profiles.


You can do that right here! Just cut-and-paste your profile responses into a message and post it in the "Using eHarmony" forum, along with a request for feedback from the community. You are sure to get some helpful responses.
 
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Purplethumb is offline Purplethumb Post #265  May 4,2009, 5:59pm
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I had been on e-harmony for months and only one responded back in real emails and that went back and forth for one month. The irony of it that he was a teacher right there in my daughter's school or is it a flat out lie ? ( no, she is not in any of her classes) Then one day, he sent a final email and that was it. I was really hurt. Enough. Since then, no other responses, not even answers to my questions as I usually send out to each person matched. What's is wrong with the people out there ? Geez, there are a lot of lonely hearts with bruised egos or are they too nitpicky ?


I have a lot to offer as a great friend, am in a stable permanent job, and much more. I find this is such a humuliating experience to endure through this weekly so it is either I close my profile for good or perhaps someone can provide gentle feedback on my profile ?





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seasprite is offline seasprite Post #266  May 21,2009, 6:57am
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I'm first!!! I've spent 17 unmarried years with the same man. I left him 4 years ago because he "suddenly" didn't want marriage and children. I was on E-Harmony for 2 years and only had one date (my first since 1988) and 2 people who were interested in talking with me on the site or the phone. I'm back on after a 2-year hiatus and am having the same issues. I'm also on medication to hold off complete infertility, which is an added stress. What am I doing wrong on my profile???
 
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vicman1970 is offline vicman1970 Post #267  May 22,2009, 1:17pm
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I need help. I don't know whats wrong with my profile. I've been on eh for almost 4 months and nothing! I don't think anyone has even looked at it! Makes me wonder if its even being sent out.
 
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skippyricky is offline skippyricky Post #268  June 13,2009, 10:18pm
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I think the article was good, but I would like a couple more examples. I am a person who struggles to write this kind of information about myself in a upbeat and positive format. I learn in this area better seeing examples so I can put your comments into action.
I have been able to get to direct communication with seven woman in the four months that I have been on eH site. so I think the profile is ok but could use improvement. I always say that there is room for improvement but enjoy where you are.
The people I met are different that the people that I discovered in the emailing and phone calling process. I usually exchange at least 4 emails before exchanging phone numbers. I like to talk two or three times before meet. (normally we talk at lest 30 minutes a call.
After three or four dates the person changes (maybe it is me that changes). I do not know if I am just not paying attention or the fact the majority of women are looking for a committed relationship.I think when people start to feel comfortable you see more of them(personality, who they are, or what they really want). Please help!
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oddi is offline oddi Post #269  October 29,2009, 5:48am
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I'm also new to this site and have not dated in over 20yrs.  Am afraid to come across too negative and dry. It has been a long time  and things sure have changed. 
I worry about my conversation and too many what the do's and don'ts might be and worry if i make the wrong one and my confidence will go even lower esp being an olser women over 50.
 
 
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tooteaching is offline tooteaching Post #270  December 29,2009, 7:51am
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I have been on here for several years. I think at times I get more closes than openings. I need to know if there is something I'm missing or something I need to add. Any advice would be helpful.
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