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i would love to get some feedback on my profile as well. how do i get this much needed help?
- August 1st, 2008, 12:20 pm
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i love life & would like to share it with someone who would behonest, trustworthy & respectful to me. irecently retired&i'm looking forward to a future full of challanges, excitement & fun rather that be just enjoying the simple things in lifeor taking a flight to ???? wherever.i have a strong desire to help people & that could bepart of the flight to ????.


i have two children one grandaughter who i adore. my daughter is28 & myson is30 &with a fantastic wife& they have abeautiful daughter who is17 months.
- August 2nd, 2008, 07:54 pm
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ameribaje wrote :

i would love to get some feedback on my profile as well. how do i get this much needed help?
Bonjour à vous je suis ravis d'etre parmis vous dans ce groupe interracial mais domage que je ne sais pas lire l'english mercie
- August 3rd, 2008, 04:10 am
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I can completely relate with "happyred"! I feel that I have some excellent qualities to offer a potential partner as well... HOWEVER, I have been on eHarmony for many months now, and have not really "connected" ONCE! What's the deal? It's becoming increasingly frustrating to me! I feel that Imust not be portraiting myself correctly, eventhough I've re-read my profile multiple times in an attempt to "catch" the mistakes I'm obviously making! The men I'm interested in are not responding to me, and the ones whoARE responding... Well, they aren't exactly what I am looking for. I've even wondered if maybe I was just having a really "off" day when I completed my "personality profile"?... Because the matches I'm getting are NOT what I was expecting, and I am obviously NOT what they were expecting either! Please help me find a way OUT of "Wonderland" where everything seems backwards!
I'm experiencing exactly the same thing. The ones I'm not interested in respond and the others I wonder how and what they were thinking when they matched us. I'm getting a lot of matches but none seem very fruitful.
- August 3rd, 2008, 04:52 am
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I would also like to receive help in this area. I have reviewed my profile several times and have been on and off with Eharmony for several years and no luck. I main problem is finding someone I would be mentally and physically attracted too. I wonder if my own physical looks are not up to Par with the norm and should lower my standards. I know beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, but I wonder if my weight is the issue or possible just do not have an attractive face or is it all due to my profile. I wonder if I put a picture of a model on the picture if I would get more responses.Do I need a profile makeover.
- August 3rd, 2008, 09:55 am
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I seem to be getting closed out by a great deal of the women I am most interested in, but getting further into communication with more of my middle interest level. I keep remaking my profile and redoing/reworking it, but I seem to be getting the same response. I've tried everything from trying to display my personality to stripping it down to surface level view of myself. Throughout the spectrum, I seem to be receiving the same results! Please help!
- August 3rd, 2008, 02:18 pm
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Good Evening...I would make an absolutely perfect candidate for a profile makeover since I'm fun, intelligent, playful, well educated and very interested in meeting my match on e-harmony. I think my profile could use some tweaking, so why not get it from the experts here. I am not being sent many matches and the ones I'm sent, for the most part, are wonderful men but not for me! Consider me...no I'm the one to choose!1 Thank you!
- August 6th, 2008, 07:54 pm
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I would very much appreciate inputon my About Me. I am 48 and can relate to the woman in the makover above. I realize that there are many men who are seeking younger woman. However, most Matches are not even looking at my profile. I have made a few changes and added a photo as suggested but still with almost zero response because if they are not even looking at my profile - how could they possibly respond, negativively or positively? Although I have not been successful on this site, I have discovered a lot about myself and feel that I have a more mature understanding of what I am looking for in a partner. Thank you in advance for your assistance.
- August 6th, 2008, 08:34 pm
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rlongman wrote :

Some people need a profile makeover. Some profiles need a person makeover.


I have no idea which I am. All I know is I've been on this service for years, andf some 95+% of them either close me out immediately or never respond to my first questions. Especially the ones I'm most interested in. I really think I'm better than that. I really think I deserve better than that. But those sort of numbers are more akin to a beer-swilling girl-chasing egotistical lazy tub of lard than a caring, active real man.


I get more tired of being alone by the day. And the total absence of response is, to say the least, very deflating. It's hard not to think they see something I don't. I want to love and be loved, but is it really asking too much?
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Don't know if you are still a Member but I can relate to some of what you are saying. It may not be you! Many of my Matches never respond or even look at my profile. They just simply exist on my list of Matches until I decide to clean house and end a communication that never started. I learned that a few of my Matches membership expired because they indicated there expiration date on their profile. The expiration date was prior to our being Matched. Hope that this may explain why some of your Matches are not responding. Good luck to you. Don't let this site or anything or anyone in life deflate how you feel about yourself. Regards from someone who has empathy for your situation.
- August 6th, 2008, 08:57 pm
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I am not happy with any of my matches..
- August 6th, 2008, 11:51 pm
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