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Man. I'm here thinking to myself that the year is almost over and find that, despite my best efforts, I have reached 5 years of singledom.


Now, this article is reminding me that I not only will be lone single person amongst my family (and those extended family members that will be with us on Christmas), but I also will likely not have a date on New Year's. Worse, I have never had a New Years date, much less a New Year's kiss.


Who out there is hoping to also break that pattern. Please - comments from those more fortunate!
- December 9th, 2008, 07:04 pm
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The countdown to finding a date for New Year's Eve starts now! eHarmony Advice has a few strategies for kicking the year off with someone special.
- December 9th, 2008, 07:04 pm
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imlistening wrote :

Man. I'm here thinking to myself that the year is almost over and find that, despite my best efforts, I have reached 5 years of singledom.


Now, this article is reminding me that I not only will be lone single person amongst my family (and those extended family members that will be with us on Christmas), but I also will likely not have a date on New Year's. Worse, I have never had a New Years date, much less a New Year's kiss.


Who out there is hoping to also break that pattern. Please - comments from those more fortunate!
I say "think positive thoughts." Put the intention out to the universe that you have a date on NY Eve. That you have a date with a wonderful man. (I assume you're female) Trust me I am in the same boat and I am trying to do what I am suggesting you do. It's call the law of attraction. Out thoughts are powerful and create our destiny. So if you continue thinking I haven't had a date nor a kiss and I'm a lone single then that's what you will continue to be. Think the thoughts that you have what you want. Let me know how it works out.


Sending good wishes your way.
- December 14th, 2008, 12:36 pm
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Never underestimate the power of positive thinking!! Best of luck to you for all your heart desires in 2009.
- December 18th, 2008, 10:45 pm
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