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Dafearon is offline Dafearon Post #11  December 4,2008, 12:32pm
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In my experience, the only people who get mad at being "checked up on" are the people who have something to hide.


Trust is a terrible thing to lose. If he's being this secretive about it, going behind your back, and lying ...there is probably something there.


I'd kick this guy to the curb.

I hate hate hate being checked up on. I'm not doing anything wrong, I do not like the fact that if i say I'm doing X, you don't believe me and have to confirm on your own. I KNOW i'm not doing anything wrong, but to me, it either says you're not listening to me, or you don't believe anything that comes out of my mouth.


But for the OP, he's already lying to you and taking precautions about being found out about whatever he's doing. He's taken it the next step further to hide his activities because he expects you to snoop because he knows you know he's lying. You don't need any more information. You have everything you need in front of you. At this point, the trust in this relationship seem irrevocably damaged.
 
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