jetmech is offline jetmech Post #1  November 28,2008, 12:26pm
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You initiate communication, the person looks at your profile and does not respond!!! Should you just close the match and assume they are not interested?? Why don't they just say no thanks if they are not interested instead of keeping you hanging??? There is no way to ask them what they want to do!! To close or not to close that is the question.
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #2  November 28,2008, 12:34pm
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There's a good chance they're non-paying members and can't communicate (yet). Also, maybe you seem OK but they're too busy with other matches / dates and are waiting for things to slow down a bit.


Don't close the match just yet. Keep on communicating with others for the time being and maybe she'll come around.


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horseintheclouds is offline horseintheclouds Post #3  November 28,2008, 12:40pm
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I dont understand why on the list of reasons there is nothing like "not a good physical match for me" when closing.


EHarmony has sent me so msny "matches" that either are 3-4" shorter than me or live in another country !


Sometimes they send too many matches andithe process to close them all can get very time-consuming. I wouldnt take it personally. The right person will come along.
 
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bigfincat is offline bigfincat Post #4  November 28,2008, 12:43pm
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I would not close them right away. Maybe after 2 weeks I'd do so. But the decision to proceed may take some time. Weighing your profile & distance apart may be factors.
 
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