tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #31  August 27,2009, 1:50pm
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I do not know but I believe on a first date man should make a very big impression like me I like a guy to give me a very nice bouquet of flowers. Also, I do not like a man whois a senior citizen, If I hangout with one just a friend nothing else not looking for a grandfather, or a father in replace with my father just if he is like 20 or older than me he should be able to please......me like 97% otherwise he doesn't have any chance with me I mean he is already older then he be all cheap nuh!


I like a man to asked me on a date even is not the first date even its our 2, 3rd, 4th, or 5th, or 6th date or 7th date what I want like if we are going to a dinner in a romantic place he should always asked me first what I want as a woman, and also if we are going to a mall he should asked me, or even he doesn't he should volunteer to buy me things for example: if I am looking around and we stop some stores and I be holding the things and then putting it back that is asignal I want the stuff, and that for him to ask me first do you like that? and if I say "No" once and then cannot get out the place or the store meaning I like that stuff, and yes I want it no need to ask me twice or three times duh please......do not be so naib of course, I want him to buy it for me.


As for me if a guy cannot buy me things on the first date whatever I wanted he will not be able to buy it for me on the 2nd, 3rd, and the 4th date etc. This concludes me if I get soseirous with him he will be all this cheap to me hell no!! I must well stay single if a guy cannot give me things I want in life correct?


For me love cannot be meause about anything! If a guy really loves me he will prove to me he is willing to do anything, and do everything to win my heart in the end. Whatever it takes even he has to risk his life in the battle. I want a guy who will jump in the deepest water when I say so otherwise will not get married with him or be in a serious relationship with him whatsoever, I am not like an ordinary woman when someone give them an ordinary size of diamond will say "Yes" to I do! nuh this is why I joined e-harmony because for me to challenged them to see if they can be able to find me the Mr. right I am looking for or I been searching for whole my life, I do not think whey will be able to though but we will see......


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I am a cristian,I go to church on a regular basis, I am retired, I have 3 children, and 3 grand children. They live on there own. I love to slowdance, eat out, eat in, cook out, any thing to do with the out doors.
MsPickle meet brothermike, brothermike meet MsPickle.
 
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happy68b is offline happy68b Post #32  August 28,2009, 4:14pm
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Hello, Personality I think is the most importent reaction. happy68b
 
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BigP is offline BigP Post #33  August 28,2009, 4:53pm
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How about advice on how to weed through the psychotics, the flakes, and the gold-diggers? I live in California and that would describe 99% of the women here.
 
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CreolePrincess is offline CreolePrincess Post #34  August 29,2009, 5:51pm
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It is so complicated, ya'll, and it doesn't even have to be.

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This needed more choices for answers.
 
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Wittyname is offline Wittyname Post #35  August 30,2009, 6:49pm
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According to your test, I'm a First Date Ninja. Flattering I suppose, but incredibly amusing.

Nice ego stroke though.

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Laughingdaily is offline Laughingdaily Post #36  August 30,2009, 7:13pm
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BigP wrote :
How about advice on how to weed through the psychotics, the flakes, and the gold-diggers? I live in California and that would describe 99% of the women here.

You will have to wade through those no matter where you are. I have the same problems here in the PNW as I did in San Diego, only difference is the weather!!

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fluffygrl is offline fluffygrl Post #37  December 30,2009, 5:48pm
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I'm checking out e-harmony for the first time. My questions are: Why do I get matched 98% of the time with guys who want a "thin" or "physically fit woman"? I say right on my page that I am overweight, I'm not huge, just a little overweight. Almost everyone closes my match because there is no picture of me. I don't have a camera, and I didn't know it was soo important to have to physically see someone before striking up a conversation. It seem so stange to me that just because someone can't see me; they automaticall dismiss me. Does anyone know why?
 
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speedraser2 is offline speedraser2 Post #38  January 17,2010, 10:02pm
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You can say whatever you want but someones appearance is important.  There are things we all find attractive and things we do not.  I am not attracted to red heads. Never have been.  I am prob not going to go through the process with one.  I do not like skinny girls   When someone has put their picture out there to be reviewed they expect the same from others.  I would suggest you have a friend scan a couple pics that you like and post them.
 
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LonneyGrandpaBear is offline LonneyGrandpaBear Post #39  January 18,2010, 1:04pm
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Hey Dude, its the same up here in canuck-land and yes its a fact, you will have to wade thru the swamp to get to that green pasture on the other side, just think of it as a game of darts, continue to take aim, continue to take your best shoot and yes that perfect dart will hit dead center, just remember rule # 1 never take yourself out of the game, happy trails dude. 
 
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This is fact #1. with the majority of the male sector. THEY ARE VISUAL. Now that doesn't neccessarily mean visually they'll always prefer athletic fit and trim ladies. But there has to be some attraction, Ie: eyes, hair, smile, etc. So I suggest you come out of the dark, take pride in the attributes you like, and when someone does get in touch with you, you'll know they're inquiring for the right reasons. Don't be discouraged. It's a numbers game, keep playing it. As far as what EH is sending you, contact them, and let them know they're sending the wrong people to you, or you may have put in your profile that you like to do sporty things, thus they assume you're looking for the same thing. Review that. Good wishes to you for the very best.
 
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