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Longing for a better sex life? It’s out there if you’re willing to follow the rules. Check out the 3 Cs of great sex.
- February 5th, 2008, 06:56 am
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COMMUNICATION IS SOMETHING NEEDED IN ALL ASPECTS OF OUR LIVES... NO ONE CAN GUESS WHAT YOU NEED OR ARE THINKING DISPITE THE FACT WE SOMETIMES WISH IT WERE SO... IT CAN BE SOMEWHAT UNCOMFORTABLE WITH A NEW PARTNER AND IF YOU ARE SHY, YET WELL WORTH THE EFFORT FOR SPEAKING UP MAKES THE BEDROOM SEX MORE ENJOYABLE...
- February 5th, 2008, 06:56 am
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It's probably pretty telling if you find you CAN'T talk to your partner or aren't ready to, that perhaps you shouldn't be in that situation with them.
- February 5th, 2008, 11:34 am
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de_zeye_ner wrote :
It's probably pretty telling if you find you CAN'T talk to your partner or aren't ready to, that perhaps you shouldn't be in that situation with them.
SO TRUE! If you do not feel comfortable enough to TALK to your partner about sex, you have no business having sex with them.
- February 5th, 2008, 12:06 pm
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I don't know about you guys, but the communication can be passed thru moans and body language if verbal doesn't work for you. A touch and a moan means she liked it. A touch and a loud moan means she really liked it... a touch and.... you get it!It works the other way too... a touch and a subtle pulling away says a lot too. Everyone is different but in a sexual way, touches and listening/watching go a long way!
- February 6th, 2008, 12:52 pm
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Hi Gina:Agreed!from Haruo
- February 6th, 2008, 06:18 pm
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BELLEVIE wrote :
COMMUNICATION IS SOMETHING NEEDED IN ALL ASPECTS OF OUR LIVES... NO ONE CAN GUESS WHAT YOU NEED OR ARE THINKING DISPITE THE FACT WE SOMETIMES WISH IT WERE SO... IT CAN BE SOMEWHAT UNCOMFORTABLE WITH A NEW PARTNER AND IF YOU ARE SHY, YET WELL WORTH THE EFFORT FOR SPEAKING UP MAKES THE BEDROOM SEX MORE ENJOYABLE...
Talking at the beginning of the day and at the end of the day is the only was to establish real intimacy. No one know your likes, dilsikes, what makes you happy or sad. Boundries need to be set and eary on.
- February 6th, 2008, 07:05 pm
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Do you guys hear youself its chemistry fire passon fun and plessure you guyshave been deprived if their isnt at least some of the above it takes two maybe you should just do it.
- February 10th, 2008, 09:38 pm
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My ex was not a great communicator. Sheo often would say nothing during sex and then afterwards would be angry at me for it not going the way she had hoped lik she expected me to read her mind. Then she would hold a grudge. Needless to say the marriage failed.
- February 11th, 2008, 05:31 am
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So whatever happened to the Biblical prerequisite for great sex - "the 4rth C" A Marriage Covenant?No where can security and communication flourish more than ina secure, committed friendship for life, where your partner has committed to never leave you, or cheat on you and to love through thick and thin!Also for those of us who have been married for years...FYI, my husband and I met on E-Harmony and married 4 years ago....for us we know that sex gets better and better for literally years, when you are only with one partner, your spouse, and your relationship continues to grow and deepen, over the years, so does your sexual relatioshipNot that it was not great at first, but you never know how much greater that next peak is until you have stuck it out long enough in a committed relationship (ie marriage) in order to get there.My husband and I have talked about this often, and are always amazed how there is always still a higher peak of satisfaction and pleasure that can be reached, even after 4 years, we are still learning more about each other and experiencing each other in a greater way every timeHad we only had short-term uncommitted relationship and sexual encounter, we would have never known what we were missing...
- February 11th, 2008, 06:44 am
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