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I need to find great sex...
- March 21st, 2008, 10:45 pm
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Whoever said this is a christian dating site???? I've never heard that. I am most decidedly NOT christian and would never have signed up for a christian dating site. There may be christians on here as there are christians on every dating site, but please don't project your beliefs onto the rest of us. Not all of us share your beliefs about relationships or sex. I for one have no problem with sex outside of marriage, and think this is a c ompletely acceptable, and interesting, thread for this site.

As for me, I have to say my three c's for great sex are likely unprintable. They are slang names for body parts, except for one female body part which has the letter C as the first letter in its clinical name. :-)
- March 22nd, 2008, 09:36 am
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- March 22nd, 2008, 01:22 pm
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Emme wrote :

Whoever said this is a christian dating site???? I've never heard that. I am most decidedly NOT christian and would never have signed up for a christian dating site. There may be christians on here as there are christians on every dating site, but please don't project your beliefs onto the rest of us. Not all of us share your beliefs about relationships or sex. I for one have no problem with sex outside of marriage, and think this is a c ompletely acceptable, and interesting, thread for this site.

As for me, I have to say my three c's for great sex are likely unprintable. They are slang names for body parts, except for one female body part which has the letter C as the first letter in its clinical name. :-)

It seems the accusations of eHarmony being a Christian dating site is just a leveraging point for criticism.

- March 22nd, 2008, 01:24 pm
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Gina_B wrote :
de_zeye_ner wrote :
It's probably pretty telling if you find you CAN'T talk to your partner or aren't ready to, that perhaps you shouldn't be in that situation with them.
SO TRUE! If you do not feel comfortable enough to TALK to your partner about sex, you have no business having sex with them.
i think sex talk by itself only no person or people can communicate about sex with words i think you need to understand first that.
- March 26th, 2008, 02:54 pm
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Gina_B wrote :
de_zeye_ner wrote :
It's probably pretty telling if you find you CAN'T talk to your partner or aren't ready to, that perhaps you shouldn't be in that situation with them.
SO TRUE! If you do not feel comfortable enough to TALK to your partner about sex, you have no business having sex with them.
i think sex talk by itself only no person or people can communicate about sex with words i think you need to understand first that.
- March 26th, 2008, 02:54 pm
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i think sex speak itself. no person can make people or their partner understand how they feel its only from their act that we came to know how strongly they feel for their partner. my act (sex)is my power to express my emotion no words can describe a person emotions than his act and behaviour. behaviour which he does in bed, in love making and in simple thing from waking in morning till going to sleep in the night.
- March 26th, 2008, 03:07 pm
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How about Caring,Commitment and Communication? The pharase "Having sex" seems to have replaced "Making love".

- April 16th, 2008, 11:35 am
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How about Caring, Commitment and Communication? It appears that the phrase "Having sex" has replaced "Making love". The latter of the two, in my opinion, has more depth and dignity.
- April 16th, 2008, 11:45 am
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I think this was a good article, altho possibly directed at the folks with little positive sexual intimacy experience. Is there a related article that deals with differences in sexual needs. That subject is screwing up two dear friends marriages. I've known/worked with both guys for about 21 yrs, and guys like then don't grow on trees. I worry they will just some day give up, cause they have been trying for decades to get more sex. As they are both former bfs, I can vouch for their competence in the bed, they are gorgeous, thoughtful, funny, kind, and very devoted to their families. And don't snipe at why they are unloading to a woman, I'm an honerary guy in my ex profession. I also complain to them. siren
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