Iren is offline Iren Post #1  February 15,2012, 1:22am
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I've never been married and never been fall in love with someone. It always seems to me that I would have one loving man, I don't know why. I always left my boyfriends and still looking for my soul mate.
I don't like russian men but, of course, I know a few ones who are a wonderful husbands and fathers.
I have a problem with understanding "men's world", sometimes I can't understand what the stuff in their head. Why they don't appciate women. Why they look at women as if we were meat . Why they push a pregnant woman or old man? European, American or another foreigner don't do it...
Perhaps it's different mentality?
My advise for everyone - read the books written by John Gray and Barbara de Angelis!
I found answers to my questions. It's a wonderful books!
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Have you joined a dating site (these are advice boards, not intended for dating) to do your search for the "good man"? FYI, I know several Russian men who are are good husbands to their wives.

I would also recommend you seek counseling to find out why you cannot engage in romantic relationships with men.
 
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Thank you, I know, it must be strangely why I can't find my soul mate but I'm sure I know cause - I'm a monogamous)
 
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Do you understand that this is not a dating site to find non-Russian men?
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European, American or another foreigner don't do it...
 
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Hi Iren and welcome to eHA.

Russia is a big country, full of many men of all different kinds, I'm sure. Why do you think none of them is a good love-match for you?
 
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Iren is offline Iren Post #6  February 15,2012, 11:36am
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I think that many russian men who live not in Russia get a cultural change, their mentality change, I mean.
All my driends who live in Europe tell me about it.
Maybe I mistake but it's problem to find a man who would be intelligent, who would appreciates family values.
Family is the core value in my life.
 
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Well, sorry to say it, but "man's world" goes along with women not initiating or paying for dates. If that's how you behave, those are the men you're limited to.

Quite frankly, John Gray makes as much sense as Barry Goldwater. If dating success is a goal, I'd never utter this tripe again.

Having left all your partners is a Fasutian bargain, to be sure.
 
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Iren wrote :
I've never been married and never been fall in love with someone. It always seems to me that I would have one loving man, I don't know why. I always left my boyfriends and still looking for my soul mate.
I don't like russian men but, of course, I know a few ones who are a wonderful husbands and fathers.
I have a problem with understanding "men's world", sometimes I can't understand what the stuff in their head. Why they don't appciate women. Why they look at women as if we were meat . Why they push a pregnant woman or old man? European, American or another foreigner don't do it...
Perhaps it's different mentality?
No, perhaps wrong circle of friends.
 
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Sassafras54 wrote :
Hi Iren and welcome to eHA.

Russia is a big country, full of many men of all different kinds, I'm sure. Why do you think none of them is a good love-match for you?
too much TV, I think
 
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Iren wrote :
I think that many russian men who live not in Russia get a cultural change, their mentality change, I mean.
All my driends who live in Europe tell me about it.
Maybe I mistake but it's problem to find a man who would be intelligent, who would appreciates family values.
Family is the core value in my life.
Oh, dear, what are you talking about?
Half marriages in America end in divorce. Every fifth family doesn't have sex (between age 35 and 50) (by some research up to 30% , not 20%, so almost every THIRD) . Yep, family values.

Find "russian" Jew and you will have good guy with family values. And great mother-in-law )))
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