Does the number of your past partners matter?


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talldark is offline talldark Post #1  September 14,2011, 5:01am
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Are either too low or too high considered a hinderance for a potential mate?

And, since this is supremely subjective, what do you see as "too low" and "too high"?
 
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I never ask, nor do I want to know...

The only thing that matters is the test results..
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Hmmm....I'm beginning to see a patter in your posts...

First it was 'Am I too intimidating when I approach and talk to women'...

Then..'Are glasses not attractive to women'..

And now this...

Not that this place isn't all about 'advice'....But you can't decide everything about your own personality by answers from strangers on a message board...Some of these you really should figure out on your own or the lack of confidence that you have will continue...

For this question...This is not something that anyone should be discussing unless way down the line you are in a relationship and happen to both want to share this....but most people do NOT talk about this...There is absolutely no need...

The only issue is when you are going to be intimate with someone and make sure that you both are healthy and use protection...That should be your only concern.
 
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To answer the thread question, it might, especially if it's a high number. But the past is the past, that's why you don't need to talk about it. What you don't know won't hurt you.
 
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talldark wrote :
Are either too low or too high considered a hinderance for a potential mate?

And, since this is supremely subjective, what do you see as "too low" and "too high"?
Talldark, what is the perfect number to you for a potential mate?
 
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Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

The only number that matters is the person you are with. He/She is the number one (in importance that is).
 
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Some people ask, some people care, many don't. Those who ask and care have wildly different numbers that are important to them.

Moral of the story.....the question does not matter. It might matter to one specific person, and none of us are her, but most are not going to ask, and don't really want to know.
 
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Is this about that new Anna Faris movie they keep showing trailers for? Seems like it'll be funny, but I have a major problem with the premise because it seems very shamey to me.
 
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Most definitely. If her number was too high I'd drop her like a bad habit.
 
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myusernamehere wrote :
Most definitely. If her number was too high I'd drop her like a bad habit.
You sure seem to have a lot of bad habits!
 
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