What Women Find Sexy About Men: The Top Ten List

What Women Find Sexy About Men: The Top Ten List

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What Women Find Sexy About Men: The Top Ten List


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Jameson is offline Jameson Post #1  July 28,2011, 5:10am
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For the minority, this might well be legitimate, but we all know that when it comes to what the majority of women find sexy in a man, it's only a top 3...1) Good looks,2) Money/success,3) Treats you like crap. I'm only half-kidding.
 
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Jameson wrote :
For the minority, this might well be legitimate, but we all know that when it comes to what the majority of women find sexy in a man, it's only a top 3...1) Good looks,2) Money/success,3) Treats you like crap. I'm only half-kidding.
Give yourself some credit -- you're only one-third kidding.

The writer of the article obviously hasn't been reading these forums much or maybe doesn't get out enough. The top two descriptors most women use are a man's physical attractiveness (cute, hot, good looking) and money related (good job, successful career, owns his own business). Everything else in the article is just a little gravy.
 
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As a woman I say this list is right on the money, despite what my cynical friend says above. This article is not about what makes women choose certain men but what they find SEXY.  Certainly some women choose men for their money but money does not make a man sexy- although power can- status. Which is why either a poor poet is sexy. As for women liking to be treated like crap, i disagree with this, it is just that certain men are already sexy and so they can get away with it- a common mistake, if less charismatic men try the same approach they are likely to be on their own pretty quickly. And true good looks are important for being sexy (as they are with both sexes although it is less crucial for men, because women are looking for a more complex set of gifts so they are prepared to compromise on this one more than men.  
 
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 Should say "penchant" not "pension" for photography.
 
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Arny is offline Arny Post #5  July 29,2011, 3:16am
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So, if I (honestly) check about 8 of 10 items on the list, I should be like Casanova, eh? So, why am I here, reading dating advice?
 
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I recently, with much pain, divorced a ladies man--yes, he knew how to pour on the charm, he did have a sexy voice--he knew how to treat a women (only in the beginning) to get what he wants, but he had a job with prestige and made over 100k...I thought I had seen all in life and beyond shock, but being married to a man at this level...I was shocked at the way women flocked to him. He made them think he didnt want to cheat until he saw them...and you wouldnt believe the women, married/single/some church women--would be players with him. He's another woman's problem now.
 
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I've given up on American woman and am in the process of bringing a woman from Thailand over here.Asian woman just know how to treat a man and they understand us
 
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dude1980ish wrote :
I've given up on American woman and am in the process of bringing a woman from Thailand over here.Asian woman just know how to treat a man and they understand us
I fail to see how someone from a different culture could understand "us" without spending considerable amount of time here.

I see conversations at the the dinner table:
"So, what did you think of the hat trick the other day at the Ducks game."
"Do you really think Tea Party reps. are acting naive like hobbits in regards to national debt per WSJ article?"
"Do you think I should bowl in the scratch league next year?"
"and, after he said that, I said "I will be back" (fake Austrian accent here)".
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Yeah, right
 
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tangochef wrote :
I fail to see how someone from a different culture could understand "us" without spending considerable amount of time here.

I see conversations at the the dinner table:
"So, what did you think of the hat trick the other day at the Ducks game."
"Do you really think Tea Party reps. are acting naive like hobbits in regards to national debt per WSJ article?"
"Do you think I should bowl in the scratch league next year?"
"and, after he said that, I said "I will be back" (fake Austrian accent here)".
...

Yeah, right
That's the beauty of it.She hasn't been poisoned by American culture and feminism and is very aware of what goes on over here.I've spent a lot of time with her when I was over there and I just can't explain how different Asian woman think and act compared to American woman.And then there is the exotic look to them.I don't know a single man that doesn't think Asian woman are very unique.Sexually she is like no other
 
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I_know_better is offline I_know_better Post #10  July 30,2011, 4:36am
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Jameson is right on the money with his top 3
 
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