Sporty_geek is offline Sporty_geek Post #1  July 27,2011, 7:19pm

Is sooooooo happy!

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I'm such a happy camper most days. Not today.

The four guys I've dated so far, none are good matches

1) refuses to read
2) controlling
3) will fit me in if he has nothing better to do
4) tells me he cheated on his wife and neither she or the other woman ever gave him a second chance, on date 1

I don't need my husband, a guy who makes sense would be enough.
Aaargh! frustration.

Thank you for all of your advice and support. Crabby!
 
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Sparkles56 is offline Sparkles56 Post #2  July 27,2011, 7:31pm
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Sporty_geek wrote :
I'm such a happy camper most days. Not today.
(Hugs) It'll get better! At least I hope. I have been having a crabby week as well.
 
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upstategirl is offline upstategirl Post #3  July 27,2011, 7:35pm
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Tomorrow is a new day and I bet it will be better
 
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LongLocks is offline LongLocks Post #4  July 27,2011, 7:40pm
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Had a crabby week too.

1. Guy No. 1 won't get his driver's license back until January (DUI).
2. Guy No. 2 is 57, never married, but also never been in a relationship/never had a girlfriend.

Here's to better luck and brighter days ahead for all of us!
 
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upstategirl is offline upstategirl Post #5  July 27,2011, 7:46pm
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LongLocks wrote :
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1. Guy No. 1 won't get his driver's license back until January (DUI).
2. Guy No. 2 is 57, never married, but also never been in a relationship/never had a girlfriend.

That deserves a and
 
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stagingbulb is offline stagingbulb Post #6  July 27,2011, 7:47pm
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There are some banner people out there. The problem is it makes the rest of us skeptical and that much tougher to believe someone is actually not messed up.
 
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Sporty_geek is offline Sporty_geek Post #7  July 27,2011, 7:49pm

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Thanks for the hugs. Two really important people are missing this week, doesn't help!
 
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savman is offline savman Post #8  July 27,2011, 9:11pm
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Well, this post is either going to be totally perfect or completely wrong.

First, I have been there, life and dating can be a real pain in the back side.

For those who believe in a principal like "Conservation of Happiness" then thanks to you all for having bad weeks, because I must have sucked it all up.

I went on a first date last night. It was great. It was a weeknight so it was just a dinner and nothing after. The conversation was really nice. I left very happy, and we had talked about getting together over the weekend. The only thing is there were really no flirty sparks. I really was not personally concerned about it because I thought there was outstanding potential there. We were both on our best behavior and pretty conservative. But, I was somewhat worried that it meant she was not real excited about the date.

We talked on the phone tonight, and POW. We just talked like we had known each other forever. We were like two little kids who had no idea what we should and should not say. We talked about how there was no kiss, and while we were neither one really disappointed, we wished there had been a kiss. We spoke to each other about how we had great anticipation for where this could go, but if something happened, no big deal. We were open and spontaneous and just wow.

I wish I could share some of what is inside me now with the previous posters in this thread. It is out there people.......not easy to find, but it is out there.
Last edited by savman; July 27,2011 at 9:13pm. Reason: typos, you can't type when you are silly smitten boy.
 
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LongLocks is offline LongLocks Post #9  July 27,2011, 9:41pm
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Aww, a silly smitten savman. How sweet!
 
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Lil_Ella is offline Lil_Ella Post #10  July 27,2011, 10:55pm
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I must be one of the lucky ones because I've gone out with some really great guys here lately.
 
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