Bullseye is offline Bullseye Post #21  June 23,2011, 6:57pm
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Natural is better. If someone decides to date or not date you based on breast size, you don't want him anyway.
 
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rules is offline rules Post #22  June 23,2011, 7:27pm
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It has been very interesting reading all the replies. I don't think I could go through w/ surgical breast enhancement. I just couldn't. Surgery scares me too much and besides, I'm all about looking natural, and this kind of surgery is about as far away from natural as it gets. Heh.
 
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What I've learned from men I've encountered... it isn't so much the size of the breast but the size of the "bullseye" that matters more.
 
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I am an A cup. My advice? Get a good Wonderbra.

When I was in my 20s I wished mine were larger and looked at the ads for implants but they were far out of my budget. I'm glad they were because now I'm quite glad I don't have them.

A bonus of smaller boobs: less sagging as you age.

My favorite guys have told me "more than a handful is wasted." I choose to believe them and am happy with what I've got.

By the way, when you get pregnant they will grow to many times their current size so you can then, at least temporarily, experience the thrill of having big uns. They bounced around so much then (I had to hold them in place when I went up and down stairs!) I was happy to go back to my regular size!
 
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Besides the bouncing, the bras that we wear leave trench marks on our shoulder blades. And I ended up having back troubles too. If I had had the money, I would have reduced mine even 2 sizes(that would still leave me with plenty). And as someone that previously posted said, trying on clothes is a nightmare. Finding something that fits? HA!

I suggest you go with what you have. It is the best thing in the long run.


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suzyque wrote :
What I've learned from men I've encountered... it isn't so much the size of the breast but the size of the "bullseye" that matters more.
Bullseye? Is that a tattoo?
 
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Xable wrote :
A bunch of ladies and I were just talking about this. Now, I know this isn't from a guy's POV but it seems us ladies are always wishing for what we don't have.

The ladies in the group with large breasts were jealous of the small breast ladies and the small breast ladies were jealous of the large breast ladies. Each sides has its pluses and minuses.

-Bigger breasts get more attention from guys - True the bigger breasts DO get more attention from guys. The breasts do, the lady doesn't not. There is a difference. I assure you your lean body garners you more attention than bigger boobs ever will.

-Smaller breasts you get to wear more strappy and revealing clothing and still look good. Smaller breasts you can do jumping jacks without being in pain.
Years ago breast reductions were very popular too. Too big is not good either.
 
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rules wrote :
I have a question directed to the men mostly, but women may also have opinions based on their personal experiences. I am a 40-year-old female who is slender. As a result, I have very small breasts. I was wondering which is worse, small breasts or breast implants? I'm athletic, so my body is toned and except for breast size, I'm happy with my body. I really don't want surgical breast enhancement, but I think it might make my future partner happier. I'm also worried about health risks. What are your thoughts and feelings???
As a girl who went from my mother saying "Maybe you should wear a bra" to a C-cup virtually overnight, I have never had the experience of having small breasts. As an adult, I have settled into a D-cup. However, they are still very proportionate to my body type.

Rules, you say above that you have small breasts but a slender frame. This seems very natural and proportional to your body type. I think that is more important than your specific cup size.

I have a couple of friends who did have breast augmentation surgery, and I knew them before they had it done, and when I see them after, I can't help but notice their breasts. It just seems weird and out of place on them, like it's no longer proportional.
 
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mitchell175 brings up a good point. Nature tends to give us the size breasts that look best with our body type.

When someone who is slender goes and gets a boob job, they either tend to look what they are, fake, be uncomfortable because your smaller frame now has to support all this extra weight, and just not look good.
 
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Xable wrote :
mitchell175 brings up a good point. Nature tends to give us the size breasts that look best with our body type.

When someone who is slender goes and gets a boob job, they either tend to look what they are, fake, be uncomfortable because your smaller frame now has to support all this extra weight, and just not look good.
Not really. Nature doesn't always give women the size breasts that are proportionate for their body. There are some small women that have to go for reduction and larger women that have small breasts. It's genetics to a large extend.

Speaking of proportionate, for a slender figure I think A to C could be proportionate depending on the body type and height.
 
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