Do Women Really Care About “Cool”?

Do Women Really Care About 'Cool'?

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Do Women Really Care About 'Cool'?


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curiousgirl123 is offline curiousgirl123 Post #41  June 22,2011, 12:52pm
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upstategirl wrote :
I don't agree with what he stated, nor would I would ever put up with that attitude/abuse from a man. We are talking about whether I find his physical appearance attractive and sexy....and the answer would still be yes.


One has nothing to do with the other.
To me actually, knowing that someone is abusive to women changes my perception of them and whether I see them as attractive.
 
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Trixie1968 is offline Trixie1968 Post #42  June 22,2011, 1:26pm

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curiousgirl123 wrote :
To me actually, knowing that someone is abusive to women changes my perception of them and whether I see them as attractive.
Amen.
 
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curiousgirl123 wrote :
To me actually, knowing that someone is abusive to women changes my perception of them and whether I see them as attractive.

To each their own
 
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Trixie1968 is offline Trixie1968 Post #44  June 22,2011, 2:10pm

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"ANY man can cultivate the kind of “cool” women actually care about by taking just a few simple steps. ...........
It’s about a man’s ability to CONNECT EMOTIONALLY with her."

a) No they can't.

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b) No it isn't.
 
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harnomygirl wrote :
Come on. The writers are just trying to make a living. Take away what you like without insulting them or the people who like them.
I'm not insulting all the writers...just this one. He's horrible.
 
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LOL, though one person's perspective of cool differs from the next, I know this much. I love women and thank God for the gift of companionship. I also encourage women who care about this topic to find ways to make fully sure they're distinguishing the difference between infatuation, and a sense of peace towards the men in their dating life.And would it be worthwhile to ask how have you been impressing him as you determine if he’s exciting enough for you? Chemistry starts with Confidence and Character. So how’s your Character? Have you asked your dates? Have fun with these questions. Loves and Cheerio’s for all.
 
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keyshera is offline keyshera Post #47  June 28,2011, 4:45pm
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it all depends if u don't bring your cool i guess men just have to make up for it in some other way woman  just love to see men look neat and lookin good
 
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I had a message sent to me recently that said "You scare me, but there is something about your pictures that's damn sexy! " I guess this could put me in the "cool" category based on what I wrote in my profile and how enticing to a woman a guy like that can be. That message was from a woman that seems very classy and "nice" - the school teacher type who wears shirts with no neck line, drives a safe car, has a home with a white picket fence, and has to stop drinking after one glass of wine so she doesn't get too tipsy.
 
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Ok, I might not come off GQ smooth 100% of the time, but I do believe confidence in knowing your selfworth will get you pretty far. Whether your a computer geek or hot on the club scene. It's all about your confidence(coolness will follow along). LoL
 
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