Discrimination from Eharmony's members.

I haven't shown those qualities on this forum because when I ask for advice members accuse me of lying. I spend most of the topic being honest about my experience while members scream liar. You can't tell someone over the internet that he is anti-social. Once again you show that you discriminate against people who suffered from deformities.

Your also shown that your discriminate against me because you ignored everything else in the previous posts that are directed to YOU. You couldn't even defend your lies.

I think the following statements might encapsulate the OP's point of view, based on what I've read:

1. The OP is right about everything and everyone else is wrong, no matter what the issue might be.

2. The OP has never done anything to cause offense to anyone here, but many have done much to cause offense to him.

3. The OP is a victim of meanspiritedness, vindictiveness, lies, racism, and more, all at the hands of people posting here under the "guise" of helping. In short, there are some very nasty people here who delight in making the OP's life a misery.

4. The OP has been made a target of a form of brutality and unfairness unlike anyone posting here has ever seen or experienced before.

Note: I do not agree with any of the above premises, but they do seem to summarize the crux of the OP's main issues with the Advice forum. I must confess I do not understand the OP's positions on these things, but, if I am right in my above conclusions and I may not be, there appear to be many justifications for them in the OP's mind, which I have no desire to belittle or minimize.

My own read on the situation, Franklin, is that nothing anybody posts in reply to you is going to be satisfactory to you. You appear to see everything as lies and attacks, for whatever reason(s), so what recourse does anyone have who may choose to respond to you? What advice do you want? Perhaps if you gave us all the answers you wanted, we could all repeat them back to you and hope that they would not get lost in translation somewhere.

For what it's worth, I don't see the personal attacks you claim are directed at you. I am sorry you feel that you are the object of abuse here, though. I guess I just don't understand how any and all opinions contrary to your own constitute attacks. I freely admit that I do not know what your interests are or how women treat you in the real world, so I will refrain from commenting on that. It does strike me, however, you put an awful lot of emphasis on this deformity I believe you have had corrected. Is there a lot of focus on that from women in the real world? I don't know and I haven't seen pictures of you, so I have no idea if it would be something that would garner a lot of attention. I do think it would be beneficial to stop focusing on it and highlight other aspects of who you are. You are much more than your ear, although again, I admit I have not experienced anything like you have and so cannot comment authoritatively. I'm sure you have a bright mind and many unique interests. As I said, I have no idea what those are, but perhaps if you shone a little bit more light on those to the women you came into contact with, that might garner some positive interest. It's worth trying and trust me, I would not venture to tell you what your interests are or what they should be. You know what they are better than any of the rest of us.

At base, though, I must sincerely ask: what answer will give you satisfaction? Unfortunately, I must admit I feel certain already that my post will not produce a salutary response, a feeling I base entirely on the reception others here have received in response to their posts.

I must have low self-esteem to make a thread about receiving discrimination? Martin Luther King Jr made complaints about racial discrimination. Did that mean he had a low self-esteem(we should all know he was a confident man)?

I am not expecting sympathy.

Should someone who looks very clean in his photos expect someone to tell him that he looks dirty? Should someone who has a deformity expect to be accused of having interests that he does not have? Sorry, but I don't know anyone who expects to be falsely accused of having particular interest that he uninterested in.

I don't think any of those things about you (other than the women one - you don't seem to like women very much in general).

I do think you like attention.

Which you get here, in spades.

Which is why I don't typically comment.

But I'd like to see a decrease in volatile, targeted posts (they usually wind up targeted at you, which is why I think it's attention seeking behavior), so I'm posting in hopes that others take my cue.

Forgive me if I'm being dense, but how does tweet's post have anything to do with discrimination based on a deformity? He didn't mention anything about a deformity at all. He was talking about personality issues, not physical ones, although if one reached far enough, they might be able to argue that a very well-obscured jab was being made that the personality issues derive from insecurities over one's physical appearance. That kind of argument would require some serious mental and linguistic gymnastics to form, though, and even then, I'm still not sure I would buy it.

I will refrain from judging one way or another on the personality issue at present, but perhaps you could elucidate to me how you came up with discrimination based on deformity from tweet's post. This is a serious request because I would truly like to understand you. From the way this thread has been going thus far, it seems evident to me that the person struggling most with your deformity, which I am certain you posted somewhere has been corrected, is you. I could be wrong and I am willing to be corrected, provided solid reasons are given to induce me to change my mind.

well, it didn't take you too long to pull the race card did it?
I was wondering when you would post this.

Look, you have a tendency to whine...a lot...deep down I think you're a decent kid, but for the love of god and everything holy please...stop the whining...
yes we know you have a ear deformity(or did they fix it?? I don't know...)
and yes we know women hate you and walk up to you on the street and tell you're ugly..and then everyone here suggests you try and build your confidence.... then you, tell everyone you have all sorts of self esteem...that confidence is no issue for you..
I would argue someone who does have the self esteem and/or confidence you claim, would not be posting this thread..
You wanna be treated like a man?
Then start acting like one.

Again, this constant whining is not endearing you...to anyone.
Do you understand that at all?
do you??

good lord.

Martin Luther King Jr. made statements about racial discrimination, but you go much further than that in your original post. You're saying that everyone is against you. That is a sign of low self-esteem.

You draw attention to your deformity. To me that means you're expecting sympathy from me because of it. I'm not going to feel sorry for you just because you have a deformity. Millions of people in the world have millions of different deformities. They're getting on with their lives regardless of what other people think.

Get off your tush and start doing something with yourself. Stop complaining to us for how other people are treating you.

Another poster who lies about me. I never said everyone was against. Secondly, I don't have the right to make a complaint about members disrespecting me? Just another bias poster.

That is not fair to the original poster and the people who actually tried to help. You are punishing the original poster. You are basically telling me to not post here anymore about my problem. It is not everyone's lost if a thread is close. It is the gain to the members who violate the rules and it is a lost to the members who stay within the rules.

My last closed topic had no attempts to stop the violating. It was instantly closed.

This is just more discrimination towards me. Now I am unable to post anymore topics asking for help.