Weight Issues

From my experience, the "super ripped" guys are compensating for something they are lacking...huh huh...read between the lines :-)

OK..I'll come straight out with it, I'm suffering from cyber rejection. I'm beginning to think maybe I should just remove myself from the dating game. Meanwhile, there was just another Eharmoney commercial on TV "review your matches for free..." I am in a job search and working part time so I am not an Eharmony member, can not see any profile pics so all my attraction to guys is based on profile. I do have a picture posted on my profile. During the recent extended free communication week I responded to every appropriate match and received zero responses. I discovered from other non payers that they use open questions to insert an e-mail address and continue discussion outside the site. So I did that and continued discussions and viewing pics via e-mail. I believe I have placed enough e-mail layers to remain anonmous. Anyway, guys say they love what they hear and then disappear from view after pic. I have never thought of myself as ugly but this rejection is getting to me. Yes, I am overweight, but then so are the majority of Americans if you believe the media statistics. Interestingly, many eHarmony posters seem to exercise frequently and be a very healthy active bunch. I think I'm going to bow out of this adventure and work on myself because this is too distracting to my job search. I would like to hear what others out there have to say. I don't have any close male friends to with whom to discuss this, so I'm open to listening. Thanks for letting me vent!