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Wow. I thought this thread was going to be about taking a "wide stance" in a public men's room.

I wouldn't do the one nighter thing either. I think you'd feel horrible about yourself. The more you dwell on it the more it will seem like a huge deal, it seems to me. I'd keep dating, and maybe after a few dates you'll be comfortable enough with someone to have sex. Or, if you have good male friends, maybe try to flirt with one of them and see if it can progress to that. At least you'd know you like the guy going it.

Even for those who are sexually experienced and have been for a long time, it's not easy to find a partner. I mean, if a woman want a one nighter there's probably not a woman on the planet who couldn't find one. But for those wanting more, everyone is pretty much in the same boat as you are, looking for a good man with whom they have a connection before they have sex again. The only difference is that it would be your first time and for others it might be their 100th. But the underlying theme is the same.
 
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