Apparently I'm over him but nice thoughts float through my head now and then. If I had taken this test a few months ago, I probably would have failed with a huge red flag and some extra baggage on my plane to crazy town.
What about woman who still talk with their ex while in a new relationship> and further more she still compairs me with her tow ex husbands> everything from money to things. she's very very
controling on me. I am nine years younger then her.
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It says that my Ex must've been pretty great, but i'm not sure if that's 100%. I mean she wasn't the worst person I've ever met, but plenty of her qualities weren't what i was led to believe(which led to our end). Comparison to the Ex is never good, but remember to move up the ladder, not backwards.. LoL
Apparently because I won't trash her photos I'm not over her... umm, my kids are in most of those pics. I don't feel like yanking her pics out of the family albums (I got 'em all in the divorce). Those photos cover a significant portion of my life and my childrens' lives. And what if I trashed them and them and then she passed away?
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Apparently because I won't trash her photos I'm not over her... umm, my kids are in most of those pics. I don't feel like yanking her pics out of the family albums (I got 'em all in the divorce). Those photos cover a significant portion of my life and my childrens' lives. And what if I trashed them and them and then she passed away?
I feel completely indifferent where my ex, what's his face, is concerned. And, while there was once a time where I felt like burning everything he owned, along with all of the pictures of him , there's no way that I would throw away photos of him. My kids are part of him and, like you said, those photos cover a significant portion of my life and my children's lives. I plan to give those albums to my children when they're older and move out on their own.
my husband died when our son was 30 months old.
It still seems to be a central tenet of his relationship with the world.
dragging past the cancer for the last 2 years and trying to reassure ... –
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i suspect he is not agonizing over it nearly as much as you are.
i suffer from the stereotypical thinkking that guys are fine with separating feelings from yearnings
Right up until they're not.
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