Yes. Re-invention is good. Done it myself a few times and doing it again.
And, oh wow... finally read the thing. Ok, to the showers!
Footnotes:
So it really IS small things, like don't stink if you wanna be close. My thoughts were more along the lines of do something different that expresses you actually care for yourself. Eat better. Get some new shoes (for me this time, cowboy boots. Always wanted them, never had them. All the finer folks in Idaho wear them. Spent large chunks of time there over the last year) Get an animal and practice falling in love with him/her. The real deal is to change yourself into the person ready to leave your bags behind and live yet another life.
Well, that's my interpretation.
Last edited by Uncarved_Block; June 7,2010 at 8:20pm.
Reason: Clarification
my husband died when our son was 30 months old.
It still seems to be a central tenet of his relationship with the world.
dragging past the cancer for the last 2 years and trying to reassure ... –
lada2
What I hate is when i have said "It was nice to meet you." Then I have had the guy jump in and say "You too. I'd like to see you again."
And then I am standing there looking for a way to tell him ... –
legend29
i suspect he is not agonizing over it nearly as much as you are.
i suffer from the stereotypical thinkking that guys are fine with separating feelings from yearnings
Right up until they're not.
... –
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