trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #71  June 11,2010, 9:52pm

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Interesting responses... someone shows pain and everyone stomps all over them. Anyway, I apologize for getting out of hand. I'm upset with all the pain I've seen in my life. I jumped the gun and I was wrong.

By the way, making fun of people doesn't help them. As for why I'm frustrated with women, I see my cold mother who never hugged me or said she loved me, or my girlfriend who cheated on me, or my best friends wife who screwed guys behind his back, or my dad crying because my mother left him. I'm not delusional, I'm hurt and angry. The post was incoherent and wrong. It was a way of trying to defuse my anger. Still, it was wrong and unjust and I apologize for it.

If anyone has ever suffered from depression, anxiety or anger issues, you may know somewhat of what I'm feeling. Anyway sorry...

One last thing, calling people with emotional issues lunatics or crazys is not only immature its just stupid and shows your real character. I'm young and angry. Give me a break, jesus...
Ok Sean, you've got real things that you'd like to discuss, I get that, now. Yes, I suffered from depression, real scary clinical depression for a chunk of my 20s and I was often angry. Sometimes unreasonably so with people around me but I didn't expect those people to instinctively know why I was out of line and I didn't resent them for not being able to read my mind or show me (an apparently bad tempered stranger) some superhuman capacity for nurturing.

If you tried to 'difuse' your anger this way in real life, how do you think it would have gone? You make an angry misogynistic post and then flip us the middle finger and then state that we're insensitive for not reading into that some deep seated hurt or need in you? Come on, be fair. We're not therapists, psychologists or a collective bunch of Mother Theresa's. We're just people, responding how people respond.

Why don't you post a new thread with the things that really are affecting you and I pretty much guarantee you'll experience a completely different tone.
 
 
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Sean, so this doesn't keep coming back to haunt us, I am going to close this thread. Please, start another thread stating the issues you want to discuss on here. As Trixie said, if we start fresh with the issues, the tone should be different.
 
 
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