Men ~ do you want us to need you or for us to be independent?


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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #61  June 7,2010, 8:15pm
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Yay! spring has sprung.

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PY_2 wrote :
It didn't...I actually came out more confused about women than ever!

(but I still got me good grades tho!

Spider?? How big?? I'm not afraid....just very likely I will lift it with a broom and throw it out in the garden somewhere.
I dont doubt you came out more confused.
But at least you got a good grade on it! Whoo hoo!

As long as you dont pick the spider up with your hand. I dont care how they are disposed of. Ewwwww, fingers touching them ackkkkk
 
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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #62  June 7,2010, 8:16pm
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Yay! spring has sprung.

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O, o. this thread is being modded now.
Spiders could not have tripped it.
 
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insertscreenname is offline insertscreenname Post #63  June 8,2010, 4:42am
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... is like a nice warm vibratey feeling all through your guttiwuts.

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scarlet13 wrote :
i think the question would be better expressed this way: guys, if you saw the following 2 statements, which is more attractive to you, and why?

1. I need a man

2. I want a man
2 please.

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I would simply rather be with a woman who wants me in her life than I would a woman who - for any reason be it emotional, financial, etc - needs me in her life ...regardless of her so-called 'independent' status.
Pretty well sums up my attitude.

Although I'm very attracted to strong-minded, independent women, that independence becomes significantly less attractive the more it tips the personality scale toward aloofness.
 
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greg75 is offline greg75 Post #64  June 8,2010, 7:31am
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I would rather have an independent woman who wants me in her life.
 
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rarepearl4jesus is offline rarepearl4jesus Post #65  June 8,2010, 12:26pm
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I don't want "the man for me" to need me, I want him to want me.

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I haven't finished reading everyone's responses yet, but would love to finish.

My tag line says, "I don't want "the man for me" to need me, I want him to want me".

I put this because as a Christian I believe that the only person I need in my life is Jesus. We are human and prone to mistakes. Jesus is perfect. Again, according to the Christian faith, and what I believe. I want a man to want me. Isn't it something special to know that someone wants you?... Nothing has to be done to have someone want you. They want you just because that is who you are. Needing to me sounds like a chore. Wanting sounds to me like an action that is so simple and easy to come.

~Stacey~
 
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Antalicus is offline Antalicus Post #66  June 8,2010, 1:27pm
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If independent means they think they can do everything for themselves and don't ask for my advice or help then thumbs down.

If needy means they can't do anything for them self let alone support them self then thumbs down.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #67  June 8,2010, 1:29pm

what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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Antalicus wrote :
If independent means they think they can do everything for themselves and don't ask for my advice or help then thumbs down.

If needy means they can't do anything for them self let alone support them self then thumbs down.

Such a fusspot!
 
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