Sexy, for you, is a man who takes the bull by the horns -- men that speak their mind, are spontaneous, and willing to risk disapproval in order to go for something they want. One word of warning: these men can be "bad boys" who leave a trail of broken hearts behind.
Hmmm....a little bad is okay I guess I was really conflicted over some of the choices..
a) I wouldn't necessarily like the guy to punch another guy out for me.... but using a few strong words to put that guy in his place would have been sufficient.
b) I wouldn't mind him calling the waiter over but I would rather tell him myself what dressing I ordered. Otherwise I would most likely not made the comment at all and just ate the salad with whatever dressing was brought to me.....after all am I there for the salad or the extremely handsome and interesting company
c) so long as that trail of broken hearts ends with me....I guess I could be okay with that...lol
I got the "edgy + respectful" guy... I basically took this quiz by picking "rude" if I was absolutely appalled by the hypothetical behavior and "sexy" if I would excuse it. I do like my guys to be a little "take charge," but I like them to actually care about what I want, too! (Take charge when I'm sitting back, but don't trample me if I'm not!)
I got the "edgy + respectful" guy... I basically took this quiz by picking "rude" if I was absolutely appalled by the hypothetical behavior and "sexy" if I would excuse it. I do like my guys to be a little "take charge," but I like them to actually care about what I want, too! (Take charge when I'm sitting back, but don't trample me if I'm not!)
+1 to all of the above!
I agree with everyone who said that some for some of the questions, the behavior wasn't tude, but it sure weren't sexy either, so I approached it as excusable = the sexy selection of the two available choices.
Yes! I do like/need a man who takes charge, speaks his mind and most definately.... risks one more time to make this relationship be the last in his trail of broken hearts... After all, aren't we in 'the pursuit of happiness'? I'm not going to nit-pick the questions in the test because when I'm fall for him, I take the WHOLE watermellon, seeds and all. LOL
My quiz , I know what I like, and attracted to,but It's very nice for a guy to make some choices, that let's me know he can take care of things, that's COOOOOL, but realizes I can also have my own opinion without dissin him!
You Like Edgy, but You Need a Dose of R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Yes, you find take-control men sexy, but it has to be tempered with a dash of difference. You want to have your say, and men who know how to take your wishes into account can be sexy too.
I got,"You like edgy,but you need a dose of respect",I like to have my say in the relationship and be in control as well,I guess the guys in FL just don't get it.Too many losers over here.The man has to take my wishes into account.I like a guy who takes care of me and if I got the wrong food will stand up for me,I don't like wimpy men.I have a single wimpy good friend guy and it is a turn off for me.I know he is not for me even though he is very nice,than I have a friend who works with me who doe not respect my wishes and pushes me around.I don't call him anymore on my days off,I only see him at work,for me he is a turn off and the friendship is over,but I still talk to him and am polite.A guy has to know how to balance,if he can't,too bad for him.I don't chase guys around.I did it when I was 14,it was a bad experience with this kid who I had a huge crush on,he was very rude to me,he ended up marrying someone else later in life and I ended up marrying the wrong man,go figure,a mama's boy and a player.Now divorced for 10 years,knowing I'm cute and picky,I know there is nothing here in S,FL.One more thing.Never go back.If a guy treated you bad once ,you are a fool if you go back.
Last edited by itsaboutyou; May 4,2010 at 11:04am.
I got edgy but need a dose of R E S P E C T. Hmmm alright. Not sure how to respond to this. I feel that a pinch of romance and some old fashion values works well for me too.
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